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I'm convinced I might've shaved a few years off my life from the sheer anxiety alone of telling my woke friends I desisted. Thankfully most of my IRL friends are 'terfs', and were happy I'd finally learned to love myself in that sense. But my online friends are woke and I only told one of them about desisting. Heart racing and sweating the entire time. She reacted okay-ish. She didn't really say much at all, and I took that as a win over her calling me a bigot. The other is still trans identified and I know for a fact it wouldn't go well if I brought it up, so I just don't talk to her anymore.