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[–] puffyfluffyleaves 49 points (+49|-0)

IDK how others here feel, but if a man calls himself a feminist, I trust him less. I feel like I've never met a truly feminist man, and the more men go on about how they're such a "good ally!!!!" the more I feel like they're just virtue signaling / over-correcting to cover up their true feelings.

Just yesterday I saw a guy online say that he was "even more feminist than even his wife"... Yeah, buddy. I doubt that.

[–] DarkMavis 25 points (+25|-0)

I think I agree with this. I’m not saying that men can’t be allies, but actually saying they’re a feminist…I think it’s one of the reasons I was always kinda creeped out by Clymer, even before he transed himself.

[–] UberBitchcraft 24 points (+24|-0)

In goes in line with the phrase “I’m a nice guy!” and “I’ve got nothing to hide.”

If men have to say it, especially unprovoked, he probably isn’t a nice guy, a feminist, and likely has something to hide.

[–] PinkPanther 5 points (+5|-0)

God the one's who say they're a nice guy and act like complete sociopaths in the same sentence. A kind of delusion I can't stomach.

[–] Ruby 12 points (+12|-0)

Just yesterday I saw a guy online say that he was "even more feminist than even his wife"... Yeah, buddy. I doubt that.

Now let's hear from his wife!!! 😂

[–] proudcatlady 3 points (+3|-0)

We won’t be able to. He’ll be talking over her the entire time.

[–] SulphuricMirror 6 points (+6|-0)

I feel the same way, actually. Men who claim to be feminists in my experience have been feminists exactly 0 (zero) times. Hm…

[–] BogHag 3 points (+3|-0)

I'll take a man who stays in his fucking lane over a so-called "male feminist" any day.

[–] mommakarhu 🌴unencumbered🌴 35 points (+35|-0)

Describe a red flag without saying it's a red flag

[–] PinkPanther 21 points (+21|-0)

Listen to me. There is no good reason on this earth to ever go with a man from Reddit. Like ever!! 10/10 he is a creep, for the love of god I know it's a joke here but I have actually seen women who have been married or dating and they started on Reddit. It's truly fucked.

[–] SulphuricMirror 5 points (+5|-0)

Like, they met on reddit? Hm, well good luck to them but I have to say that wouldn't inspire me with confidence if I heard a friend was dating a man she met on reddit of all places.

[–] hmimperialtortie 10 points (+10|-0)

This would only work if she meant a cat up for adoption ...

[–] SulphuricMirror 4 points (+4|-0)

I dunno… a liberal feminist cat? I would still prefer a radical feminist cat, tbh. 😼😼😼♀︎😹😹😹

[–] Lilith_Won 10 points (+10|-0)

every man I've ever dated who was liberal, "feminist", and used Reddit, was abusive. Usually they are covert narcs

[–] PinkPanther 4 points (+4|-0) Edited

Covert narcs, sociopaths, psychopaths, pedos, extremists, racist and the utterly deluded(including the trans and fetishist ones). Srsly it's like the shittiest raffle game, each prize is a door to abuse. Normalize being creeped out and rejecting men from Reddit.

[–] Lilith_Won 6 points (+6|-0)

Oh yeah in fact I just blanket reject any man who uses reddit. Total misogyny fest. He probably only uses reddit to look at porn, too