[–] Julie92845 8 points (+8|-0) Edited

One of my exs would constantly harass and coerce me into sex. It went on basically every night for years. One I had a medical procedure and had to wait 6 weeks for sex. He coerced me into BJs and HJs the whole time and exactly 6 weeks after he started harassing me for intercourse again because he'd "waited the 6 weeks" like he was told.

It's been years and I still don't really enjoy sex much anymore because of it. Maybe once a month.

[–] PGTips4Lyfe 5 points (+5|-0)

I'm so so sorry. : (

This is what I'm talking about. Sex work, being coersed into sex for whatever reason, with people who dont give a fuck about your pleasure, its damaging to your psyche. It's really bad.