No woman should ever enter a marriage or have-kids-with situation with a man lacking an ironclad exit plan. She must update the plan regularly and ensure that it is ready to implement at a moment's notice.

[–] spaghettiforhair autogynophobe 5 points

Definitely. If I do ever get married to a man or woman, I won't move to a place where they can isolate me, I will go into it with a clear prenup, and I'll make sure that I will have a place to go or means to fend for myself if things ever go sour. And if they ever try to sabotage me doing either of those things, I'm running for the hills.