No woman should ever enter a marriage or have-kids-with situation with a man lacking an ironclad exit plan. She must update the plan regularly and ensure that it is ready to implement at a moment's notice.

I was a full-time student, working full-time, and pregnant all at the same time. My husband offered to take care of the expenses but it was a hard "no" - what if I need a break and feel guilty because you're taking "care" of me? Also, I don't like how he shames me for how much I like spending on kitchen gadgets lmao.