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[–] TransWidow 1 points Edited

Because I think some are missing it, what this person is saying is, "if you're going to insist on restrooms divided by sex instead of gender, this is the sort of thing you're going to have to contend with."

Well, no. The facts are:

  • Nobody has to pee through a piece of plastic, male or female, trans or not

  • Nobody has to pee through a piece of plastic in public

  • Nobody who pees through a piece of plastic in public has to wash it out in public or intimidate children with it.

It's as if they're saying that it is somehow inherent to the trans experience that one has to make a display of sexual paraphernalia, and that it's in everyone's best interest if they don't have to do it in the "wrong" restroom. But again, the vast majority of people of all kinds manage to pee without waving a dildo in anyone's face, no matter how inconvenienced they feel by the bathroom conditions or anything else.

What I think is interesting is the trans people and allies who are willing to normalize this. It's as if they're saying "Yeah trans people can't help but do truly disturbing things and that's cool let's give them the right space to do them."

That is a LOW freaking bar. Is that really what they're calling acceptance? What if that was our opinion of gay people or minorities: "They're gross, let 'em be." Where's the self-respect? Where's the call for basic human decency out of everyone, no matter what they might be going through?

And I'm not even asking for toilets divided by sex. I don't give a toss if some woman wants to skip the queue and dash in the mens (have done it myself, many a time) or some TIF wants to rinse her piss-tube in there. If the men don't like TIFs or other women in their spaces, then that's their campaign to fight. I'm asking for women-only spaces. That's all.

They all have such an obsession with being granted access to expose themselves to underage girls. How is “i’m going to show you daughter my penis (or sexual toys) if you don’t do what i want” any different from “we’ll gang-rape your daughters as a dominance display”

The idea of trans men being misogynistic is so weird to me, because… don’t they realize where misogyny comes from? Don’t they know that the men who flash their penises at women and talk about raping them do this because women have vaginas—and it’s not like they ask about gender identity beforehand/care about presentation? (Food for thought—do butch women ever get targeted for sexual harassment because they’re female?) And the ones who push evopsych seem not to realize that their brains would also be considered inferior under that school of thought… since the main idea is that women evolved to be unthinking baby ovens. Honestly, the use of a strap-on is kind of sad for the purpose of this post, since we all know there’s a vagina hiding underneath there—the same vagina that they’re implicitly trying to threaten using the strap-on. One would only know how they’d react to being threatened with a phallic object themselves—maybe, “No, I’m a real man? Even if I have a vagina, my vagina is off-limits and totally not exploitable like cis women’s vaginas!” So sad to think that someone who was once a vulnerable little girl would threaten other vulnerable little girls, but I guess that’s how internalized misogyny goes.

It would be funny to quote Mean Girls at them, though.

many, many TIFs say really violent repulsive shit like this in a misguided attempt to 'pass' as male. unfortunately it'll never work

She wants us to see a tough guy standing with his trans-sisters. What I actually see is a desperate handmaiden.

She’s a butch lesbian, too. Way to live down to all the lesbophobic stereotypes.

Looks like TIFS are learning at the knees of TIMS. My support for them is less and less. Two X chromosomes doesn’t give them a pass for disgusting behavior.

[–] Genevieve 5 points Edited

Men don't typically take their penises out to wash them in the sink, and definitely not near/in front of little girls, but sure.

The men that do take their penises, their home grown organic penises, out in front of little girls are all perverts/pedos. I find it interesting that she has more in common with the perverts than with the majority of men that would find that pretty despicable. Hmm...

People be sleeping on TiFs. They do just as much fucked up shit that TiMs do. They are the reason we have "birthing people, chest feeding, uterus havers etc".

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