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[–] ArmedFemme 🪖🎖️ 42 points

I think he's a closeted gay man who is picking up on flamboyancy, not your inner woman.

[–] BlackCirce enby jinping 11 points

Anyway, this massive homophobe, tr*mp loving, good-ol-boy has picked up the sudden habit of walking into my cubicle, placing his hands on my shoulders, and asking if I need any help or if I had a good weekend or whatever.

His homophobia might be a defense mechanism

Deluded af.... idk if he made the story up, but either way, deluded af.

Or he is just a nice guy and you're a judgemental prick.

I think this is most likely. He might be closeted, but we all know how genderspecials dehumanize and revile anyone they see as the “enemy”. I can’t trust their judge of character when they call women nazis for saying sex is real. This guy might just be a regular ok dude.

My guess in the guy is picking up on the narcissistic childishness of the AGP, not on his hormone regimen, and is treating him like a teenaged boy instead of like the other male adults in the office.

That’s also a good theory, kind of like a patronizing “hey sport, let Uncle Rick sort it out for ya”.

Into to the dumpster with both of them. Why are men, anyway?

This sounds to me like the coworker isn’t gay at all, he’s just a straight homophobe picking up vibes from this guy’s mannerisms and working his way up to bullying him.

Image transcription: r/MtF

I think my bigoted coworkers subconscious is picking up on me being a woman.

I'm not out. I don't think I'm passing but HRT is admittedly hitting me like a brick and I've stopped hiding mannerisms.

Anyway, this massive homophobe, tr*mp loving, good-ol-boy has picked up the sudden habit of walking into my cubicle, placing his hands on my shoulders, and asking if I need any help or if I had a good weekend or whatever.

Again, I've known this guy for a solid year. This is a brand new thing he doesn't do to the other in the office (all male)

I think his unconscious sexism is showing. It's creepy.

It's also ironic considering he'll hate me real quick once I come out.

He already knows what you are, nothing subconscious about it. You are a woman, with a vulva, that he can try to worm his way into. There is no opting out of sex based oppression. There will still be many men who act as pervy predators to you no matter how bald and flat chested you make yourself. Some will surely find the transition an added kinky twist.

Sounds like this is a TIM, a man who isn't trying to look like a woman but is claiming his MAGA coworker can just telepathically tell he's got a woman-soul anyway.

[–] HERetic 8 points Edited

Oh yes, I see r/MTF now. I thought this was a TIF, the word "Boymoder" threw me off but does make more sense this way upon furher thought. The other comments sound spot on then, the co worker is gay, bi, or maybe one of those psuedobisexual chaser types. He may indeed dislike OP if he ever comes out, or he may reeeeally like him.

Yeah, I'd say coworker is either closeted or it's completely nonsexual and he just feels sorry for the awkward office dude and decided to make an effort to try to take him under his wing (and dude is interpreting this behavior in the most "validating" way possible). Honestly, for all we know his work could be slipping the more preoccupied he gets with gender crap and their boss might have asked this guy to check in on him now and again.

What I'd put money on, though, is that it isn't that the coworker secretly can sense a woman-soul.

[–] no- [OP] 4 points Edited

If I’m correct, Boymoder also refers to men who keep their fetish secret and haven’t attempted to “come out” to most people yet.