[–] HERetic 8 points Edited

Oh yes, I see r/MTF now. I thought this was a TIF, the word "Boymoder" threw me off but does make more sense this way upon furher thought. The other comments sound spot on then, the co worker is gay, bi, or maybe one of those psuedobisexual chaser types. He may indeed dislike OP if he ever comes out, or he may reeeeally like him.

[–] no- [OP] 4 points Edited

If I’m correct, Boymoder also refers to men who keep their fetish secret and haven’t attempted to “come out” to most people yet.