Identity? My identity is mother, wife, sister, crafter, baker, gamer, geocacher, and hopefully one day, crazy cat lady. My sex is female.

THIS. It's a reality of life not an identity. For many of us, it results in sex-based oppression and that gives us solidarity as women and to some extent an identity. But, in an ideal world, we would not be oppressed and therefore not need that solidarity.

[–] hmimperialtortie 🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈 7 points

Sister cat lady! (I’ve been one all my life. I was brought up right.)

Same, I've grown up with cats, and I hope to one day have a place big enough for at least 3 πŸ₯°