Identity? My identity is mother, wife, sister, crafter, baker, gamer, geocacher, and hopefully one day, crazy cat lady. My sex is female.

[–] real_feminist 19 points Edited

THIS. It's a reality of life not an identity. For many of us, it results in sex-based oppression and that gives us solidarity as women and to some extent an identity. But, in an ideal world, we would not be oppressed and therefore not need that solidarity.