Hey not all off us with pastel hair are TRAs some of us are just metal heads !! Plus Iโm a Gen z so itโs pretty much common to dye your hair . I will say itโs more common among the TRAs mostly because coloured hair is associated with alt fashion and culture.
I know, I have friends whoโd be in their fifties now who are GC (not radfems) and like pastel hair. Like everything else, itโs spoiled the moment TRAs touch it.
I feel you there but it's not like the TRA uniform. The hair is not the problem. It's just hair. Plus I'm such that I see older women in my area who have no idea about transgender politics, getting conned by some gen z tra nazi into a trans (blue pink) dye job.
Same, Iโve never liked pastel hair colours (vivid hair colours were okay) but now I side-eye them all. And I used to be a Goth with black dyed hair and a violet clip-on hairpiece.