I hope that "MY neovagina" person is real.

The thing that is so bad about these arguments is that they are directly intended to remove people's barriers and force consent. It's nOt wRoNg to prefer a particular sex/body type/ethnicity but it IS bIgOtEd so you need to DO BETTER with your BIGOTRY and you can work on that bigotry of yours by HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T FANCY. There's really no other preferred outcome. "Cis" and don't want to date trans people? The only proof of your transphobia being addressed is a trans love interest. White and don't want to date outside your racial group? DO BETTER but also don't FETISHISE the person but also you have to go out with them or you're a bigot. Not attracted to fat bodies? Unless you literally marry a fat person your bigotry will never be disproven, Homosexual? Hey there are people with opposite sex genitals who are your sex now, better date them or else ... you're a traitor to the LGBT community....

[–] Brans93 0 points Edited

Them saying it's not wrong to have preferences but those preferences should be examined sounds a LOT like there would be no reason good enough to not want to be with a trans person. Any reason given would be automatically transphobia. And it's ridiculously obvious that the only thing that matters to these people are the trans validation, to hell with anyone else's feelings.

I wouldn't date a trans person because I don't want to date a trans person. I don't need to say anything else about it, and I could care less if anyone is made to feel bad because of it. There's plenty of people in the world, I'm sure they'll manage to find one person who can deal with their shit. Dating is by definition exclusionary, sounds like they need to get over it and realize their choices limit their dating pool just like everyone else's choices do.

The only way to "win" their bullshit games is to just not play. I would never willingly associate with someone who was trans that was so engrained in this ideology like this. I can't imagine how sufferable it would be to be friends with someone like that, let alone date them.