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How to help 4yo understand? posted by u/ladynutbar to r/cisparenttranskid

My 12yo recently came out as Trans. Her siblings are adapting pretty well with her new pronouns and name.

My 4yo really struggles. Like a lot. Argues that “Sibling is a boy like me. Sibling is dead name" which I do get it, it's hard at that age.

Anyway to guide him through this or do we just have to wait it out?

Also, how to get the 9yo from throwing “low blows" by deadnaming when they're bickering?