[–] BlackCirce enby jinping 67 points

POV you’re a teenage girl who just heard how your dad talks about women with his friends and you will never be the same

Ah, thank you for reviving the horrible memory of going to lunch with my dad and his friend. When our waitress left the table, they looked at each other, then asked "Would you?" before laughing. This was in front of my mother and the friend's (now ex) wife and their young daughter. Men are disgusting.

[–] crodish 44 points Edited

Truscums / transmeds have always been "peakier" than most TRAs. They're the group that most "transtrenders" would call TERFs even though they're "trans" themselves. They're just one hair shy of being GC because the lie affects them personally and they can't give it up or their worldview would shatter.

They want to believe that surgically modifying their bodies makes them the sex they long to be. Well, no it doesn’t. They’re still deluded misogynists, just more committed to it. They’re also experts at mental gymnastics. There is barely any difference imo and they are just as gross and despicable.

Some of them do admit that the surgeries don't actually make them the opposite sex. I think what everyone thought transsexual meant prior to ten years ago is what "truscum" is now.

The funny thing is that I’ve heard (from some part of the online trans community, I think the transmedicalists themselves) that there’s a “tucute-to-TERF pipeline.”

How are we supposed to be taken seriously when our identity is being taken by these freaks?


[–] FlorenceBlue Lvl5 Laser Lotus 25 points

It’s funny eh lol. Like sorry lady, it’s freaks all the way down.

No, it's just a few weebs! plugs ears lalalalala I can't hear you...

[–] spacykate 40 points Edited

This is truscum, they are trans people (mostly FTM) that say in order to be trans you have to have dysphoria and most of them are transmeds also (in order to be considered trans you have to take steps towards medical transition such as taking hormones or some surgery). AKA "hatekeeping". This is in contrast to the "tucutes" they say that the pre-everything trans ppl are valid, no need to socially or medically transition, aka "transtrenders". Most of the uwu catgirl skirt go spinny TIM variety are "tucutes". So there is a male/female dichotomy here also, with the females lining up (mostly, nothing is 100%) with the "truscum/transmed" side and the males lining up with the "tucute" side. All of these terms come from tumblr BTW.

I’ve noticed that too. TIFs are hated by the trans community for being female and for usually being on the truscum side.

I've noticed the truscum/transmed communities have a lot more TiFs as well. I have a lot more sympathy for them honestly... they're probably suffering from an actual mental problem (bodily dysphoria) and genuinely believe medical transition relieves their suffering. Doesn't make them men, but at least they have a reason for transitioning that's not based in the shallowest of gender stereotypes...

You should start a blog 'I look at Tumblr so you don't have to' modelled on the 'We watch Fox so you don't have to' people.

The sad thing is I only know this from following some radfems on tumblr, I have avoided as best I could the more extreme parts of tumblr but occasionally the weirdness spills over (like I found out about people getting tics from tiktok and stuff like shifting and otherkins) from people reblogging stuff. Mostly I follow aesthetic and lifestyle tumblrs. I'm not looking for the weirdness, it just appears.

TiFs definitely notice the rampant misogyny of TiMs, but are too timid to ever call it out. Most of them will still bend the knee to Mx. Spinny Skirt and say that the TiM is so much more "oppressed" than they are.

Trans activists have spent decades trying to get people to understand that it isn't a fetish and what do we end up with?

A movement of fetishists posing as a civil rights movement?

Lots to unpack here, but the TIF talking about

my boytits

Erm… you know there’s already a word for that, right? If you’re a man with boobs, why not just call them the well-established term we already have?

[–] crodish 18 points Edited

Moobs? 🤣

Sexualizing themselves even after un-sexualizing themselves smfgdh

[–] no- [OP] 8 points Edited

Image transcription: r/Truscum

So many trans groups have become incredibly dysphoria-inducing bordering on fetishistic.

TW for quoting extremely dysphoria triggering language in the spoilers

So I joined a few trans groups on FB just to see what they were like and holy fuck I have never hit the "leave group" button so fast. One group, in particular, was just disgusting. There is no better word for it. Pure fetishistic cringe. I need to vent because I am still reeling from the garbage I read.

Pretty much every post was something along the lines of "I love wearing short skirts so my girlcock can catch the breeze" or "I don't want top surgery because I love having my boytits played with" or "tucking is for the weak, gotta show that shit off and my least favorite of all "they/them (or he/him) pussy hits different" Along with just endless nonsense about how "loving your trans body" (aka not having any dysphoria) is totes super valid.

Also bullshit of note:

  • Saying that trans men are traitors to the community because we apparently just hide away and never did anything like "the strong BIPOC transfemmes."

  • Saying that passing and especially being stealth is transphobic.

  • Saying that "transmascs" don't really experience transphobia like "transfemmes" (see again, the claim that we apparently all pass super easy and then just "hide" and betray "transfemmes")

  • White "trans" people claiming that white trans people (especially trans men) don't REALLY have any issues and just get everything handed to them when transitioning and are automatically accepted by everyone.

  • Endless "uwu thigh high, cat ears, skirt go spinny" posts.

  • Saying that HRT will lead you to develop fetishes. Treating this claim as a positive thing to look forward to.

  • The uniroinic use of the word "clitty"

  • "trans men should donate their uteruses to trans women."

How are we supposed to ever get taken seriously when our identity is being appropriated by these freaks?


I don't like to kink shame, but god, the fetishy stuff is so annoying. Trans activists have spent decades trying to get people to understand that it isn't a fetish and what do we end up with? A bunch of weebs who think being a woman is wearing long socks and liking catgirls who tell us our dysphoria doesn't make us trans.