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Nope, not at all. When I was pregnant with my twins, people would make awkward jokes about how I looked like I was pregnant with twins. And then after I said I was having twins, ask me about ivf cycles and how expensive they were. Which is invasive and also a really wild assumption (my twins were spontaneous). I had total strangers ask me about my labor plans, how dilated my cervix was, etc.

People forget that keeping their mouths shut is an option. Like, you could always just say nothing.