[–] nopenottoday 6 points Edited

None of this proves you're not an abusive parent. You'd be surprised how many abused kids don't realize they're abused until they're much older, or never at all. There are abused kids out there who will swear up and down that their parents are amazing and love them so much because they are gaslighted/ brainwashed and they don't know anything else. There are entire families out there where all the children have been abused by one or both parents and they all live in denial forever and are enmeshed with the abuser. Sometimes one child will speak out and call the abuse what it is and that child is shunned from the family.

This woman is a narcissistic child abuser and she has been exploiting her daughter to gain a lot of attention and what we call "narcissistic supply" for herself.