They always say they don’t even want to use their dicks during sex like that’s supposed to make a difference. It’s not just the dick that’s unappealing, it’s the whole man attached to it and the Y chromosome in every cell of his being.

Right, and how are you supposed to have sex without ever coming into contact with your partner's genitals? Hugging, rubbing your body against his or hers, sitting atop him or her, etc? I'm hetero but I imagine a lesbian would just vomit if she accidentally felt a half hard penis while rubbing against a supposed "woman" 🤢