Did this person confuse force (oftentimes being more capable openers of jars) and violence or is he just mental? Since we do not live in the days of yore, never once has the Nigel gone out, killed a pig brutally and then skinned it with his teeth to gift me a pigskin coat. This would be the only scenario I would see myself benefitting from male violence.

By the way, you don't need a man to open jars, you just need a corkscrew. Take the tip to the lid and press down until you make a hole. Then remove the lid.

I wedge a knife between the glass and the lid to break the seal. :)