I think people were downvoting her because she’s being a bit ridiculous. If your primary concern is that your body might get slightly more curvy and fearing your NB status being slightly Invalidated, instead of your reproductive health and autonomy being maintained idk why you would go to a birth control sub just to complain about your hesitation to start BC because of your “queer” status.

Yeah I suspect a lot of women have a lot less patience for this BS, now that Roe is gone and women's health clinics are shutting down