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This is the correct answer.

I still listen to Savage sometimes when I need a dog-walking podcast but I don't agree with him much anymore. But I've been listening for a decade and reading his column since the dinosaurs roamed the earth and old libfem habits die hard. I'm interested to listen next week to catch his answer.

So he obviously isn’t going to write an anti BdSM thing, so he will probably say to find a boyfriend who is into BDSm. To be honest when I was involved with the scene there were a lot of couples like that, dome were generally classic boyfriends and there was this idea that a certain amount of trust and love was necessary to really explore the kink.

This didn’t make it a good scene, it was rife with abuse even beyond the BdSM itself, but there was this whole concept of after care and stuff

This sounds like the worst possible combination…hook up culture and BDSM in one