Just in terms of resources, she would be a million times better off if she weren't cosplaying as a man. Women's shelters aren't as dangerous as men's. She needs to be protected from violent men against whom she can't defend herself because she's female and disabled.
Yes. I can just imagine the DMs she'll receive from "super nice guys" offering a desperate 24 year old girl shelter in their apartments.
God, no. This is yet another reason why affirmation-only is bad. It makes life much more difficult and creates a class of people who need all kinds of special accommodations.
Some of the young TIFs are not alright. Purely speculation here - could her, "multiple disabilities one of them being a physical one which impacts mobility" possibly be related to earlier use of puberty blockers or the impact of high levels of Testosterone on a female body?
At any rate, this 24 year old is clearly suffering. It looks like people in the Boston subreddit did attempt to guide her towards some helpful resources.
And lurkers, no, I don't feel happy about her situation.