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There is plenty of porn elsewhere....wtf.

[–] tamata 8 points Edited

They have to get their exact porn. I was thinking about this today when I saw a post in a sub that calls out misogynistic subs (to report them and such, I can't remember its name) that was pointing to a porn sub called whatshername or whoisshe (again, I can't recall). It's a sub where men post (I assume nude) pictures of women in hopes to get her name so they can find more of her pictures to jerk off to.

I was like, damn, categories is old school now huh? Hell even porn star names is probably old school. Now every time they jerk off, they have access to exact women, of which there are many now with all the various methods (and little regard of verification) of posting homemade porn. Now, men can look for, identify (and help each other identify, ofc), and follow extremely specific-looking women who make extremely specific porn. I want to say that I am shocked by this but sadly I am not, we have always been little more than commodities to them. Only now, instead of settling for "ebony" or "anal", they can memorize a few names and look for specific individual women who fulfill all their desires at once. I almost can't fathom it.

ETA: I used "settling" in a sarcastic way here.

This is porn addiction behavior. I had a friend who had this problem, and it was really difficult for him to get off without resorting to extreme stuff, it's just like any other addiction, you develop a tolerance and need to raise your dose. This happened to him when he was about 23 or so, thankfully he was able to overcome it and has a healthy sex life now. Porn addiction conflicts with real life sexual stimulation, and even though he was still aroused and still liked women like normal people do, he was unable to finish when he was with them, from what he told me, most men that don't quit eventually get erectile dysfunction.