Why do trans people think they're the only ones with "lost" years? My youth and young adulthood was basically one bad decision after another, but I don't ruminate on it because that's fucking life, and all I can do is take what I've learned moving forward. I'd love to be 20 with the confidence I have now, but guess what, I'm not a delusional entitled loser, so I won't subject y'all to an essay about it.