If you're scared of us, then why do you demand to be in our spaces?

Also, I'm a short woman and one of my rapists was shorter than me. Short men are still usually physically stronger than women of the same height/taller women.

Short males are still physically stronger than taller women. As a mom of boys, I was shocked, very shocked, to discover that my sons were stronger than me by late elementary school, when two of them were still my height or shorter (the third was taller). And I'm both tall and strong for a woman. They'd only just started puberty at that point.