How does one have sex with a vibe?

I hear the young people talk a lot about "vibes" so if she does it too then she can show that she's down with the kids.

Oh, I have early-twentysomething daughters so I know, I'm being facetious.

When older women are still lacking emotional intelligence, I just feel a mix of pity and irritation. Mostly, I'm embarrassed for them.

If she was a teen who just discovered she's only attracted to people with likeable and interesting personalities, it could be excused, but an adult should really know better than to believe she's somehow special and not like other women for being bi and having standards.

Some bisexuals really think they're better human beings due to their sexuality. Even if you don't understand us homos and heteros, can't you try to emphasize??


I can see past biological sex and be attracted to literally anyone!

It's actually pretty homophobic.

Right? As though gay and lesbian people are bigots for excluding people from their genitals! My dating is actually highly exclusive thank you very much. There is no affirmative action to be inside my vagina

I’m bi and I’m so embarrassed and cringe at this shit. I hate being associated with these people. There was a bisexual dating show on a while ago and the presenter honestly said something like “bisexuals are amazing, because we are attracted to people and not genitals … hearts not parts.” What the shit kind of straw man is that ? I have never met a single person who is like “I just love dick , no matter who it’s attached to.”

[–] crodish 5 points Edited

Is "hearts not parts" solely a TRA thing or did it come from elsewhere before? I have such a viceral cringe reaction to it whenever I hear it now because I associate it solely with girldick logic.

[–] hmimperialtortie 🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈 1 points

I think it came from the gay rights movement originally. Of course the T have twisted the meaning.

I get you sis... I feel so shit when i see them straight girls call gay men f#gs for not dating them! We are not defined by the proverbial bad apples though :)

[–] real_feminist 11 points Edited

"I have never experienced sexual chemistry. I pretend friendship is the same thing."

Someone's personality and vibe is there "gender". She means their sex.

This is the Member of Parliament for a district of Oxfordshire, UK. She's attracted to people for their personalities, unlike the rest of us, who don't know whether we're attracted to someone until we see their genitals.