I've been with my wonderful partner for almost 3 years now but, until last night, had always been afraid that she would find out about my gender critical views and it would be a deal-breaker for our relationship.
Well last night we stayed up putting the world to rights and she knows that I'm strongly anti-porn and prostitution already. I lead with that and told her that I'm a radfem and GC and I got to discuss all my views*.
And she understood! She said everything I mentioned was reasonable, that she gets my point of view and that she had been critical of certain things (like the sports issue) but wasn't sure about whether to bring it up. Most of all, she said I'm not a bigot, I'm not extreme - I confessed that I was so scared to tell her because of how vehemently anti-GC everyone at university is. And she said my views couldn't change her love for me, that she always thinks I'm level headed.
In the end, she said she never thought about it that deeply but she wants to look into the issue more. And that anyone who couldn't see the problems with trans ideology 'clearly haven't thought about it very much'.
Tldr : My heart feels so full - I've peaked my partner and I adore her so much!