I wrote a far sappier post here and cleared it because I don't need this website to be my diary. Basically my grandpa is in his nineties. He's got all his mental faculty but his body fails him at every turn and I'm just worried this will be my last year with him. This has been coming for some time but today I realized it's real. It could be any time really. It could be another 5 years. we've got no idea. He's the person who made me who I am.
I've had to organize 2 funerals in the last year and I'm just not ready to go through all the photos again. What advice have you got for softening the inevitable blow but most importantly how to get the most out of your time with someone while they're still alive?