when I started my job I sat quietly at the computer and did it, I got moaned at for being too quiet, so then I started being chatty to everyone and larking around like the employee they specifically said I should be more like, then they moaned I was too loud and distracting the others in the office. then they moaned about my hair and moaned about 2 other womens clothes, this was in an office that was like 95% men, no uniforms or anything there was short haired men, long haired men, most in tshirts and some absolutely stank like they hadn't washed in months and had bad dandruff and no one said anything to them.