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[–] hufflepuff-poet 33 points Edited

No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. (Includes, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, FDS, MGTOW, etc.) Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list

So women having boundaries and supporting each other in maintaining boundaries and independence from a male partner is now considered as hateful as actual incel/misogynistic subs?? Preddit is a freaking joke 😒😒😒
[–] SpiritsGrimoire 14 points

They had such violent hate for FDS and it just shows how rotten to the core Preddit is. Can't even have a "WGTOW" board because female space that thrive that aren't porn is a no-no...FML
[–] FutureBreedMachine 6 points Edited

There actually is a wgtow subreddit. It's just small so the scrotes haven't noticed it yet. If it gets bigger, though, obviously it'll be called a hate subreddit or probably just get banned.
[–] CrazyCatLady 1 points

Women exist in men eyes to be an extension for their own desires. Whenever we try to breakaway and do anything that doesn't pleasure their selfish minds they just try to invade it on whinge like babies.

[–] shveya 14 points

They get so irrationally butthurt over women sticking up for each-other or themselves. I see it irl a lot too.

[–] LonelyKindred 16 points

It's pretty funny how men are often disappointed by how women are very nonsexual, but when they meet that nymph of their dreams they're so porn-addled they can't get it up for round two and end up disappointing her instead.

[–] danaseilhan 6 points

Or, they're horrified that she likes sex and condemn her for it.
[–] Brans93 1 points

Yeah they want horny virgins, not horny women who have "ridden the cock carousel" 🙄
[–] FutureBreedMachine 14 points

The dudes she's with have GOT to be porn addicts or something. I also have a high sex drive and had an even higher one when I was younger. The dudes that I knew watched porn a lot couldn't ever keep up with me. Now I'm with a guy who doesn't watch porn and I've never ever had that problem with him.

I hope she manages to find better men.
[–] 17throwaways17 [OP] 33 points

Preddit makes me SICK. She has a higher sex drive and all the people in the comments say it must be her fault that these men who promise her the same sex drive dwindle. Theyre "teaching" her to stop being so sexual...

If it was a guy complaining they would tell him that its the women's fault too.

Its always the women's fault.
[–] LasagnaRossa 23 points

If it was a guy complaining they would tell him that its the women's fault too.

Men created a whole subreddit about it: r/deadbedrooms
[–] TheExorcistofLies 15 points

It really is always our fault. If she had been the low libido partner, they’d be pressuring her to get a full medical/psychiatric work up and into providing “maintenance sex” for the poor man. 🤮

[–] nobitary 12 points

Oh God the comments are disgusting. I wanna yell at her to get out of that misogynistic hellhole
[–] VestalVirgin 18 points

It's probably because of porn that the men aren't able to keep up with her.

Considering that most men self-report thinking about sex an insane number of times a day, you'd think they'd be able to actually do it once a day.

Incompatible sex drives are a thing, sure, but ... like, ALL men were less horny than she? And considering that most men who aren't crazy religious probably watch porn ... yeah, it seems like the most logical explanation.

[–] Radical_Phoenix 8 points

I've only had one man that could keep up with me ever. And I've been with a lot of men. He didn't masturbate or watch porn and we only saw each other once a week. He could go four to five times in a row and again in the morning. I loved him.
[–] TheExorcistofLies 15 points

Even the religious ones do, they just deny it. 👀
[–] friedparata 12 points Edited

lol, you should see the stats of porn watching across the world. and you'll see that the most sexually repressed (or religious) countries watch the most fucked up shit.
[–] sunnyxsmiles 10 points

As is typical, all the comments on the thread blame the woman and don't even think it might be the men's porn use that is causing a problem. From personal experience, I know it's the porn use. Men should absolutely feel ashamed for their inability to please their partners. I really wish more women would refuse to be with a man who watches porn and is more assertive in her pleasure.

[–] Veneficca 11 points

It's so weird to read the comments that posit this as quality time OR sex. Why is it a choice? It's not like the typical couple is spending hours every day having sex. You can easily spend 1 hour on decent sex and still have the whole day/night to do other stuff. It suggests that a lot of these guys have Madonna/Whore complexes and lose sexual interest in their partners because in their minds, sex is porn and strangers, not a loving partner they enjoy spending time with.
[–] ElleGeeBee 9 points

It's crazy the types of comments she's getting, but she did open that door by asking if she was the one doing something wrong. Men in Reddit seem to jump at the opportunity to get a free pass to talk shit about women without repercussions.

This might be an unpopular take on this post, but, one thing I haven't seen here or the comments in the post is that, stereotypically, men, regardless of porn addiction, tend to get bored of having sex with the same person. They swear they have a sexual drive higher than the moon, but the reality is, they want to have as much sex as possible with as many women as possible, not sex with the same woman. Ask yourselves why gay men, especially if they're young, tend to go through so many sexual partners in the blink of an eye... they're men and they're on the same page that it's about quantity, not quality, because the fun for them is on the variety of conquests. It's not until men's sexual drive starts waning that they decide quality (and not just sexual, but in other aspects of a relationship) is suddenly important and, in the case of the woman posting this, as was suggested in multiple comments, the woman will be accused that "she's just a sex addict," and that something's wrong with her if "she wants sex more than any of her male partners."

Another thing, it's my understanding that women in their 30s and 40s are at the height of their sexual energy, while men peak in their late 20s. If she's dating her age group, well.... 🤷‍♀️ It's either that or she is having real shit luck with not finding someone who is sexually compatible with her.
[–] otterstrom 3 points

They probably just don’t likeThat they don’t get to be the stereotypical man who wants it all the time. They probably feel “emasculated“ & worry they suck and she’ll move on
[–] Stealthygal 13 points

Ugh at the comment suggesting men might go off her because she's not keeping herself attractive enough (don't worry ladies she's tall and slim and not too girly but they knew she was NLOG)
[–] Fluffy_gender 17 points

I had a phase like this with my girlfriend. I have an above average libido and I jerk off at least once a day, but for a time we only had sex once a week. I just wanted to spend some quality time with her besides sex and I didn't see sex as love.

Yeah, sure, him jerking it to porn surely had nothing to do with why he didn't want sex...

[–] spiderberries 8 points

The phrase “I didn’t see sex as love” gives me major ick. If sex isn’t love, (which to me insinuates it’s passive/emotionless or at worst degrading) why are you doing it with your partner? Sex isn’t a conquest, and sex without love sounds boring as fuck. I mean, in my experience, sex is a pure physical embodiment of our love, but it’s not the only way to express love. I don’t know. I’ve been told I’m a demisexual before lmao. Maybe I’m just naive.

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