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I (35 f) am sick of being the most sexual person in my relationships

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posted by 17throwaways17 in WomensLiberation

38 comments

[–] Fluffy_gender 17 points

I had a phase like this with my girlfriend. I have an above average libido and I jerk off at least once a day, but for a time we only had sex once a week. I just wanted to spend some quality time with her besides sex and I didn't see sex as love.

Yeah, sure, him jerking it to porn surely had nothing to do with why he didn't want sex...

[–] 17throwaways17 [OP] 5 points

It's giving madonna whore complex

[–] Fluffy_gender 3 points

Or just porn addiction

[–] spiderberries 8 points

The phrase “I didn’t see sex as love” gives me major ick. If sex isn’t love, (which to me insinuates it’s passive/emotionless or at worst degrading) why are you doing it with your partner? Sex isn’t a conquest, and sex without love sounds boring as fuck. I mean, in my experience, sex is a pure physical embodiment of our love, but it’s not the only way to express love. I don’t know. I’ve been told I’m a demisexual before lmao. Maybe I’m just naive.

[–] hmimperialtortie cats plz 2 points

Demisexual isn’t real, you’re normal and healthy!

Posted by 17throwaways17
Score: 16

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