[–] zuubat 6 points Edited

Feminist sex, if there is such a thing, is lesbian sex.

The best a hetero woman can do is to find a situation where she (1) enjoys herself and (2) avoids STDs and unwanted pregnancy. Over time, that can be with one man, several men, or on her own.

A plus would be to find said situation without being subject to a barrage of finger-wagging from other women.

I agree. Sex with a male, under any circumstances, cannot ever be a feminist act. Men are the enemy, ffs. Women can be so silly in thinking that having hetrosexual sex makes men respect us or is empowering in any way. If women like having sex they should just go about it and stop trying to justify it or frame it as feminist.

That isn't the same thing as saying that a woman is a bad feminist if she engages in sex with a man. There is nothing wrong with being heterosexual or having sex because purely because she enjoys it. She just isn't doing anything to promote the liberation of women by having sex with a man. Not everything a woman does has to be a feminist act. These kind of questions just piss women off and turn them off to feminism.

Not everything a woman does has to be a feminist act.

Exactly. You can believe in feminism and be a feminist, and not be a perfect one. But just be honest about it. Nobody's perfect.