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Yes, as severely as rape
Yes, but less severely than rape
No

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All rape is basically like this, especially in the era of BDSM. “Innocent until proven guilty” means rape is decriminalized. The only way to know if something was rape is to ask the victim. And our male legal system doesn’t take “she said it was” as proof enough.

Yeah, this is why most women don’t report rape or sexual assault. Plus we tend to minimise things because male predatory behaviour is so normalised and just part of life for us.

I and each of my friends have many times been violated by men and shrugged it off. Reporting rape seems like more trauma and trouble that is unlikely to get you any justice anyway. It’s very depressing.