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Activism ReportSent my alma mater an email
After I got tired of deleting their pleas for money, I sent this (no idea if it will have an impact, but it felt good to finally complain):
Dear university development,
Whenever I receive an email requesting donations, I scroll to the bottom. If I see a pronoun designation, I immediately delete the email. Why? The belief in a gendered soul that requires everyone to go around stating pronouns is just that, a belief. A state-funded university should not be in the business of promoting any belief system. I would also delete any emails pronouncing that “Jesus saves” or “Allah is great.” You should be in the business of providing educational resources to students, not endorsing fringe beliefs that celebrate narcissism and disproportionately harm women, children, and vulnerable populations. You have only to look at your own house—[omitting here the specific incident but complained about] A man...for whom special exceptions were made not because he has some kind of magical lady soul, but because male privilege is the backbone of this quasi-religion. Until academia drags itself out of the quagmire of post-modern muck it's been wallowing in, you won't be getting a cent from me.
Please remove me from all outreach email lists.
Most women take that shit off as soon as we hit the door at home.
The women who might do this aren't excited about it. There's nothing exciting about it, when you're a woman.
Who in their right mind would want to sleep in a BRA??? Oh, wait . . .
You're not even supposed to sleep with a bra on it's bad for your back and shoulders dumbass idiot
And it backs up your lymph system big time, which can have really bad effects down the line, including cancer.
I've known a couple of people who sleep in a bra. Mostly they had larger than average boobs and found having the girls out was painful and they couldn't sleep comfortably. I hate wearing bras and basically only put one on when I leave the house. I've quit wearing underwires and basically only wear bralettes now anyway, unless I'm going somewhere where I need to wear more formal clothes and a bralette would show.
Yes, I am busty and have slept in a bra from time to time. It wasn't exciting for me though for some reason.
I seem to recall reading that Marilyn Monroe slept in a bra to prevent sag, while simultaneously sleeping nude. Shroedinger's support, if you will.
I read that as "busy" and was like too busy to take off a bra damn. But anyway. Yeah I have on occasion slept in a bra and it wasn't that exciting either.
So what he means is that he's masturbating in the bra and sleeping in it for erections.
Well, anyone can sleep in a bra if they want to. You don't have to be a woman to sleep with a bra on. Not sure why he thinks that makes him a woman. It's the same as being excited about doing something new. Although maybe for these guys it's not about doing something new, it's about a fetish.
Nothing is more laughably male than saying high heels, bras, and thigh highs are comfortable.
After 2 pregnancies and some breastfeeding, let's just say the girls have a mind of their own, and extend so far out my kids and husband have rolled over or moved close to snuggle and smooshed a nipple on multiple occasions. As the change progresses and I sweat at night, having a bra on (something soft and stretchy, not an underwire Victoria's Secret bra) is much more comfortable.
The experience is the opposite of euphoria, it is self presevation.
The best feelings when getting home are taking off your bra and taking off your socks. Idk why anyone would choose to sleep in one. These men fetishise everything actual women find uncomfortable, irritating or inconvenient.
I often sleep in a bra…..
I don’t sleep in it but I have before and it doesn’t bother me. I literally get $5 ones from Walmart and feel more comfortable in them during the day because the sensation of a shirt brushing against my nipple is a fate worse than death. I now realize this is uncommon and I’m lucky I can get away with it because most women are spending HUNDREDS on bras and they make them so uncomfortable.
I have a friend who sleeps in bra and underwear which I find weird. I sleep full commando 🤣
There's a bunch of comments in the responses about sports bras and how to take them off. lol
Must be hard to get them on and off with those ginormous shoulders they have.
And he named himself... squints Maevia?
Do TiMs ever pick normal names?
Only when it’s the name of a woman he knows…
I clicked that link and definately wish I hadn't. Someone actually asked if they would become a virgin again after bottom surgery. TIM of course.
Lol, this reminds me of a rant I saw on here by a TIM who was complaining that women aren’t wearing bras now or are wearing “ugly” bralettes. He was also mad about period pants instead of lingerie. Haha soon it will just be TIMS wearing underwires and thongs, and women will be letting it all hang loose!
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I never wear one, got no boobs really, I’ll put on a sports bra if I’m afraid there’s going to be nipple action around my family or something. It’s rare though.
Why stop there? I heard real women sleep in garter belts and heels 😂
And a full face of pancake makeup!