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RomanceTrans pandering in gay romance
Posted January 25, 2021 by Nim in Books

So, I read a lot of gay (m/m) romance, and have for about a decade.

I prefer it to het romance as it bypasses a lot of the misogynistic tropes that are in that genre (the dominant male/submissive female, every woman wanting to have babies etc). Yes, there are still many books with alpha males and similar issues, but I try to avoid those.

I obviously steer WELL clear of mpreg (shudder).

In the last year or two I've noticed a sharp increase in the number of trans characters. It feels like every author includes a trans or enby side character these days. I have also seen a lot of sissy fetish/trans woman books popping up in the gay romance section, which... umm... seems inaccurate according to TRA's own logic, but obviously makes a lot of sense from our perspective.

I started a book the other day and in the first 2 pages, there was a pregnant 'they' and one character asked the MC about a person they were interested in and actually asked 'what are their pronouns'. To a gay MC. I stopped reading at that point. The characters were in mid-20s. I mean, is this actually how anyone in the real world talks?

Has anyone else noticed this?

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[Deleted]August 5, 2022

Women have their children removed from them for being victims of violence, but this testosterone junkie gets to shoot up in front of her children because she says she’s a man. Why haven’t CPS moved in on her, eh?

ItzpapalotlAugust 5, 2022(Edited August 5, 2022)

This is bizarre. Poor kid could be traumatised. Imagine if a diabetic mother demanded her young child inject her insulin for her? Medical stuff can be frightening when you’re small and don’t understand.

Edit: diabetes is obvs nothing like this unnecessary gender madness. I mean, a diabetic woman would be vilified if she made her kid inject her (when she’s perfectly capable of doing it herself)

SweetsummerchildAugust 5, 2022(Edited August 5, 2022)

Love how now that she identified out of womanhood and has a patchy beard she no longer feels ashamed for liking her hot pink nail paint. The blessings of being a gender nonconforming trans men.

KissMyOvariesAugust 5, 2022

I noticed the mail paint, too. You’d think that painted nails would make her want to off herself, but somehow it doesn’t….

SweetsummerchildAugust 5, 2022

Giving birth and displaying feminine stereotypes don't induce dysphoria, only being called a woman does. Clowns, the whole lot of them.

Researcher1536August 5, 2022

Someone with a trans flag says, "why does a father-son bonding experience make you angry?" These people are SICK.

fistcityAugust 5, 2022

Lol I know the popular sentiment is that tifs aren't as clocky as tims are but most tifs are actually sooo clocky. Look at that neat little profile. Shave that pube beard and it wouldn't be out of place in a cameo necklace. And those itty bitty baby hands.

I do think it's really sad that she's only comfortable wearing pink or putting on nail polish when she can force people to play along and say she's a feminine man, rather than a relatively average woman who is apparently not very good at painting her nails and appears never to have seen a cuticle stick in her life. It is however very male of her to parentify her child as young as possible and allow the child to play with stickpins. If I had a dollar for every junkie dads dim ass domicile that I've seen with needles all over the floor...

[Deleted]August 5, 2022(Edited August 5, 2022)

You are my sunshine, my only sunshine / Abusing children for clout online! / Inject your mommy with cross sex hormones / Or she'll say you want her to die

salty-tomorrowAugust 6, 2022

I couldn’t even watch, so disturbing and disgusting, the poor child.

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