I'm attracted to men but would never date a TIM based on the fact that I don't want to date a man who:

1. Appropriates womanhood and pretends to be a woman
2. Has had extensive cosmetic surgery
3. Has a surgical wound where his penis should be
4. Is incredibly self-centered and whose entire existence revolves around how people see him
5. Seeks to control others' language and beliefs
6. Views being a woman as ascribing to stereotypes or as being a sexual object
7. Cannot have children.

Any one of these would be a deal breaker for me along with the fact that I don't find dresses or makeup attractive on men.

We’re attracted to certain men. We’re attracted to certain women. What we are not attracted to are narcissistic freaks. Why is that so hard for the masses to grasp?

it sucks bc I love androgynous/masculine women but ALL of them have gender shit or fully identify as trans :/ girl I like you BECAUSE UR A WOMAN and if I hear you call your vagina a boy pussy im gonna throw up on it.

as for men who like to wear women face, fuck all the way off.

one of the reasons why my dating app profiles dont have my sexuality is because of that. if I pop up on your feed, assume im at bare minimum attracted to your sex not your special mind feels

Feel your pain 💚

I’m very picky (and very monogamous and loyal...fucking hate all the BS stereotypes - I’m single and just let people assume I’m straight because it’s easier - if I’m dating a woman people can assume I’m a lesbian)

It took a lot for me personally to come to terms with my sexual orientation and I still feel stigmatised and sometimes ashamed. Really sucks when people assume we have no standards or preferences. And when people “don’t get” being bi...like, it’s simple - attraction to SOME men and SOME women.

And when someone says a TIM is “perfect for you” because “best of both worlds”...how is a misogynist in a frock the best of anything? Dregs of humanity more like....and WHY do people assume dick is desired over a vagina? Why isn’t a TIF “the best of both worlds” huh?...dick isn’t the be all and end all, especially if it’s attached to the worst kind of man.

And why would I want a delusional male anywhere near me?

It strikes me that the idea that people are just interchangeable and exchangeable cogs is male-oriented.

Ever see a guy try to grab a woman while she's with another man (let alone if it's two women)? I've even seen this peculiar behavior dramatized in TV and movies too. The guy is "drunk" and sees a consensual intimate exchange between a couple and then seems to think that if she's giving that affection to that man, he's entitled to get that attention too and she's the one that needs to give it to him.

I don't know what that is but whatever A to B reasoning lies behind that seems to be the same with this. We're bisexual so we should be open to all comers. Pun not intended. Or worse, we don't have a right to choose because if we're bisexual, anyone should do. It's a deranged entitled rape-y non-logic.

Absolutely, my partner is bi and she has no time for fake people whatsoever. And that's ultimately what it is, people who are pretending to be something they're not.

The only excuse needed is "I don't want to."