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wlw/bi woman/febfem circle?
Posted July 25, 2020 by stern-as-steel in Circles

As it stands there's not a space for bisexual women to talk about their love for women - whether they simply happen to be female-partnered at the moment, don't date men for personal reasons, or are female-exclusive for political reasons. It's great there's already a lesbian circle and I'll likely lurk there, but I know a lot of radical women share my circumstances of being bisexual (and therefore not going to participate in lesbian spaces) but prioritizing their love for women.

I know truewlw existed on reddit, though it was rather dead, and it was nice to have that space for all woman-loving women.

9 comments

LesJuly 25, 2020

I second this idea. Since /o/Lesbians is a lesbian-only space it only seems fair for bisexuals to have their own. Or at the very least have a LesBi sub where both lesbian and bisexual women can chat.

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steady_emberJuly 30, 2020

I agree. I would rather participate in a general wlw board than one that was specifically for bisexual women. I am a woman who is married to another woman but I'm not a kinsey 6. Regardless, my lived experience and the way I navigate throughout the world, and the way others perceive me, has a lot more in common with that of the average lesbian than it does of the average bi women.

nuJuly 30, 2020

This topic is what led to reaching peak trans for me as I slowly but surely realized all of those groups on other sites had been taken over by men. The bleak feeling that caused was incredible. Finally having a space for same sex attraction completely free of men would be so amazing. I'm not lesbian so I of course don't want to intrude on lesbian spaces, so I'm looking forward to what you propose in OP. Here's my vote for wanting it as well.

stern-as-steel [OP]July 31, 2020

I'm glad you agree and I hope it happens soon!

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somegenerichandleJuly 27, 2020

I came here to say this. Seems a little strange it's missing since there is an o/lesbian. I suppose ideally, they could have married and single too. There is a radfem mothering on reddit that'd be nice to see here too for those who want to talk about child rearing. I am bisexual, but also a spinster who is staying that way.

[Deleted]August 11, 2020

There is r/ febfems on reddit (which has evaded the ban hammer for now). It is a bit more active than truewlw.

That said, I vote for a febfem community on here as well.

ChildfreeJuly 31, 2020

Agreed!