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Practical advice
Posted August 16, 2021 by Jernsaxa in Circles

So, in another post I talked with another user about a practical advice circle. What we talked about was that some skills are "basic" to make it in life. Sadly they tend to be assigned to a specific sex (think of women in the kitchen and men in the mechanic room🙄). And it reminded me a bit about a documentary about feminists in the 60's (I think) who came together and built their own thing, had their own place and free-time life. They all came with different skill-sets and managed to help each other and teach each other. It was beautiful and stirred a bit of my inner rebel-spirit. Anyway, getting off-track... Maybe we could have a circle to ask other women for help with things we just haven't learned ourselves? I realise I can spend an hour or two searching for a good tutorial on how to best sew in a button or change the wheels of my car, and then spend a couple of attempts failing, only to realise the video was click-bait or just no good... But personally I feel there's a certain strength and beauty in knowing that we, as women, can all help each other. Maybe someone already know of a great way to sew in that button, or someone has a good video on how to change those car wheels.

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Jernsaxa [OP]April 26, 2024

Hyacinths are lovely ☺️ Too bad with the mice :/ we also have a mouse problem in our kitchen garden, and the cats just aren't helping... So, next step is traps with seeds. I don't know what else to do.

GenderHereticApril 20, 2024

So beautiful and perfect-looking.

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

Thank you! I am happy that at least some of the hyacinths weren't completely destroyed.

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

Some of our hyacinths were destroyed by mice, but some survived. Also, I put the flair "I grew it", but actually it was my partner who grew it. In our family when it comes to plants- my partner does all the planting and potting, I only do the watering.

WatcherattheGatesApril 20, 2024

I love hyacinths!!

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

Me too! I especially love that you can first buy already blooming one in a tiny pot and then after the flower dies put the bulb into the soil

istaraApril 20, 2024

This is absolutely lovely! My favourite shade of blue.

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

Thank you! Blue is a nice colour indeed!

Elle_x_ohApril 20, 2024

Perfect colour!

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

I agree! But I love all colours:)

voltairineApril 20, 2024

i'm wondering if planting mint as a deterrent could be helpful for next year -- i know rats hate it, mice may be similar. absolutely beautiful colour.

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

Yeah, people have recommend that under my previous post - so we definitely gonna try that. Although, I have read comments under someone's post about rabbits and somebody said that mint is very invasive. So I guess, we'll have to do some more research on that.

WatcherattheGatesApril 20, 2024

It is very true mint is invasive--we've struggled for years to keep it under control.

voltairineApril 20, 2024

it can be invasive, you're right. that's something i worry about in my garden as i live somewhere with a huge weed/feral plant problem, but i didn't think about it when i suggested it. i grow spearmint -- when it doesn't get a lot of water and isn't pruned it does die off and seems to contain itself to about a 1 metre area. however i do live in quite arid conditions. otherwise putting it in pots and monitoring it closely could be an idea. :)

RegularFeministApril 20, 2024

Yeah putting it in pots seems like a good idea!