Many women want this community and we were in working on getting it started but the volunteers seem to have dropped off the face of the earth.

I agree!

It would be a reason to invite over some of the sweet folks on r/detrans too.

Some of us are apprehensive because although a circle over here would be nice and actually give us freedom to speak on this frustrating topic without trans people breathing down our necks, we have an issue with not just detrans women who aren't too open to this platform but the detrans men as well. Even just solely making a "Detrans Women" related circle seems to have its issues and plus, spreading the word and getting those who just reeled back from transitioning is its own problem. Sadly that cesspool is ideal right now since those who used to be in trans subreddits can actually find the subreddit and get advice and help they need.

I suppose I guess another concern is, how would it be moderated because there were points where allies got too overbearing for detransitioners as well. A lot of women meant well but sometimes it just got to be too much.