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Recommendation RequestAny 'undercover' / lowkey GC books?
Posted June 8, 2022 by actualdyke in FeministBooks

I gotta keep this vague bc online safety etc etc, but basically I work with a network of librairies. All staff are allowed to recommend books to stock in the library/ies, but they're all vetted by higher ups before being accepted. Everyone I know there and all the external parties we work with are completely TRA-brainwashed, ranging from hardcore TRA activists to normies who just drink the Kool Aid without understanding. As a result there is an overwhelming amount of trans nonsense on the shelves especially the childrens shelves which is very upsetting to me.

I desperately want to bring some better books into these spaces, but I can't risk them researching it and finding that it's 'terfy' - obviously they won't accept it but also my job will be in danger if they suspect i'm at all GC or even just 'uneducated' and 'dangerous' lol. The farthest I've dared to go is 'Delusions of Gender' by Cordelia Fine, but that really isn't GC at all and barelyyy mentions trans people, so that's why I think it got accepted. I could never for instance recommend anything like Helen Joyce, Abigail Shrier, etc etc.

Leading to my question: anyone know of any good GC / actually feminist / pro women / pro LGB books I can sneak in? it doesn't even have to be very explicit, just anything that doesn't support trans lunacy or is written by a TRA. the bar is below sea level at this point šŸ˜­ please don't be afraid to give lesser-known suggestions that's actually for the better because the less TRAs know of it, the less of an internet witch hunt to be found

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OpalsMarch 9, 2025(Edited March 9, 2025)

I saw that one of them had posted on Twitter this week about 'accidentally' leaving out a dildo complete with balls on the 'counter' and his landlord saw it. Apparently not the first time either.

They love drawing unwilling people into their sexual fetish.

That is one of the only good things about sausage fests - they are rarely profitable and in most instances, they usually end up getting thrown out.

Shot_DunyunMarch 9, 2025

They love drawing unwilling people into their sexual fetish.

It is central to the fetish. "Validation" is others telling them their fetish is acceptable to perform in everyday life.

The first people they do this to are their own family members.

Metal_detectorMarch 10, 2025(Edited March 10, 2025)

There is an episode of horders where this gross oldeer disabled guy is living alone in filth. One of his sisters helps him clean up, and she finds his crossdressing stuff.

Poor woman was so visibly shaken and extremely angry. She kept demanding to ask him why he didnā€™t warn her that she might run into this stuff. He was trying to do the whole ā€œI forgotā€ and half assed apologies.

She said ā€œthis is so disrespectful to me. You knew you had these items, and you didnā€™t warn me. Thatā€™s disgusting!ā€

This guy had no remorse.

vulvapeopleMarch 10, 2025

Given how many TIMs online obviously live in hovels, I wonder how many of them are hoarders vs. simply being slovenly.

NastasyaFillipovnaMarch 9, 2025

Yep. For them the whole point of their fetish is to share it with others. Why else would they brag about wearing their family members undergarments

SarahWilliams_13March 9, 2025

And the less consenting the better. Itā€™s assault.

MaryDyerMarch 9, 2025

I own a dildo. My WORST NIGHTMARE is one of my parents, or anyone, finding it (but mostly my parents because I live with them). Iā€™ve literally had so many stress dreams in which I inexplicably leave my dildo out and itā€™s discovered, that my mind has somehow tricked me into thinking that itā€™s actually happened in real life, even though it hasnā€™t. Now, of course, in the dreams, whoever finds the item is always totally chill about it, because my parents are those kind of liberal parents - the type that accepts that their kids are gonna explore sexually, and just act like they never even saw the offending it. That doesnā€™t make it any less horrific for me, though. In almost every dream like that, Iā€™m so ashamed and embarrassed that I contemplate suicide. Iā€™ve had so many of these dreams over the years that Iā€™ve taken to double, triple, and quadruple checking that all offending items (dildo, lube, any cleanup materials) are safely put away.

Iā€™ll never understand the mindset of someone who would be okay with, or even WANT, someone to find their sex toys. But thatā€™s the difference between males and females. The latter are taught far more strictly that our bodies are shameful.

WrongToyMarch 10, 2025

I had several dildos and toys. I had then a new bf. So one day wee walk in and the house had been robbed and ALL THESE DILDOS WERE ON THE FLOOR. My bf had no idea about these dildos. Oh and then the cops came and photographed the dildos.

I no longer use dildos.

faerieberryMarch 10, 2025

Iā€™m sorry that happened to you but god the mental image of a cop taking crime scene photos of a bunch of dildos strewn across the floor is kind of hilarious tbh

inTERFerenceMarch 10, 2025

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OpalsMarch 10, 2025(Edited March 10, 2025)

Great. Now Iā€™m imagining that this is how you got your username.

WrongToyMarch 10, 2025

Hmm, I never correlated that but my nick is off the old r/gc, which I joined shortly afterward. Lol

LillithMarch 10, 2025

Woah! That is sobering.

puppy_catMarch 9, 2025

I have a mini bullet vibrator and when I used to live with my mother, she found it once. I never left it out, but she would often randomly go digging through my stuff under the guise of looking for something, and I came home once to see that she had been digging through one of my drawers and it was in a little bag and all my stuff there was all pushed aside when I opened the drawer later, and realized she had gone through it and had definitely seen it. I was mortified; she never said anything to me, but I cringe whenever I remember this instance. I can't imagine willingly wanting to expose anybody, especially parents or strangers to your sex toys. It's incomprehensible to me.

quiggyMarch 9, 2025

Almost this same exact thing happened to me, except I'm pretty sure both my parents saw it. I want to die every time I remember

kassandraMarch 9, 2025

one time when I was in college and still living at home smoking a lot of pot, and my dad knew but didn't say anything. he didnt approve, but when he found a random bud on the floor somewhere, be put it in a tiny bag on my stairs just to tell me he knew without saying anything. My family did shit like that lmfao I mean I still smoked it but it scared the hell out of me

turnipMarch 10, 2025

one time my vibrator had fallen under my bed where it was visible from the door. i know my sister had seen it because she made a sort of smirk at me from where she was standing, and when i figured out why i was horrified. i felt so disgusted with myself that now i make sure to keep everything buried deep in my closet or underwear drawer where no one would look.

BreadPuddingMarch 10, 2025

Because theyā€™re sick exhibitionists.

PrincessCharming1983March 10, 2025

I was living at home and accidentally left mine on the bathroom sink. My mum found it and put it in the cupboard under the sink where I found it. She has never said anything but I am MORTIFIED FOREVER.

GoAskAliMarch 9, 2025

Thats half the point: foisting their degeneracy into other people, by fiat or by force.

They are the most disgusting bunch of narcissists I've ever seen and the fact that the post-ops are damned to forever having a wound between their legs that smells like a nasty pierced earring hole? Well, even THAT is too good for them.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

Yup. Itā€™s the whole point

SarahWilliams_13March 9, 2025

Their utter lack of understanding of consent is appalling.

Artemis_LivesšŸ¹March 9, 2025

They understand perfectly. Violating people's consent is the point.

KaboodleMarch 9, 2025

Three years ago I had the misfortune of staying at a hotel on a work trip which was hosting a ā€œsex workers awareness conventionā€. The place was infested with loud old giant TIMs in hooker clothing. One came to the breakfast buffet wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with, ā€œAsk me about my ā€˜punch a Nazi TERFā€™ merchā€. My colleague was staying a floor below these scrotes and didnā€™t get a minute of sleep until they checked out on Sunday.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

Were any prostituted women even there? Or were they not privileged enough to attend?

Or was it a bunch of perverted TIMs who areā€¦.ā€™unemployed sex workersā€™ on a fetish weekend

And maybe a few grad students who did a month of OnlyFans and tries to claim sex worker status?

KaboodleMarch 10, 2025

I saw old TIMs and a bunch of young ā€˜sex-work positiveā€™ handmaidens. There was a ā€œpeep show vanā€ parked on the street in front of the hotel, and the conference website advertised seminars on ā€œHealing trauma through BDSMā€ and other gross bullcrap.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

Notice itā€™s almost always women being the ā€˜subā€™ ie self harming to process trauma. Meanwhile, traumatized men are dangerous

KaboodleMarch 10, 2025

Well, how can you be the sub when you are a 6ā€™4 230 lb. Shrek in a dress lol

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

True!

autumnrainMarch 11, 2025

It's always amazing to me how they publicly express their violent and very male urges. I can't think of even the worst cis men outright calling for violence like this, and yet it's so normalized by the trans community.

pennygadgetMarch 9, 2025

I hope more people who were forced to witness this depravity spill the tea on this shit show. Help the world peak!

Those poor hotel staffers. I bet the scrotes didn't even tip the cleaners for all the extra hazard work

They'll likely have trouble if they want to do this convention again because hotel/venue managers talk to one another about problem groups like this. And, when nobody wants to host the next AGP convention, the scrotes will blame transphobia and Donald Trump šŸ™„

PatitaGrisMarch 9, 2025

I hope the staff took photos and let them leak to normies (as happened with that disgusting furry convention). Let's bet someone can peak with that

pennygadgetMarch 9, 2025

I was thinking about that furry convention as well. I hope the employees post pics and mock the shit out of them

RiothamusscroteMarch 9, 2025

Rainfurrest?

LouhiMarch 10, 2025

I'm afraid of the answer but must ask - what happened during this convention?

vampfaceMarch 10, 2025

Here's a short video that covers it, I'm just gonna give a blanket warning for male degeneracy

pennygadgetMarch 10, 2025

That's the one!

Iota_AurigaeMarch 10, 2025

Rainfurrest 2015 flashbacks

sylviasmushroomspenis2vaginaaaahMarch 10, 2025

Hell, thereā€™s probably significant crossover in attendees.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

šŸ„“

pennygadgetMarch 9, 2025

Could you imagine booking a hotel room for a fun Vegas vacation and finding out that its full of creepy AGPs?

This is why you should ALWAYS double check if there's a convention going on nearby before you book a hotel

VestalVirginMarch 9, 2025

Yeah. I kinda feel reminded of Roald Dahl's "Witches", where the protagonist and his grandma accidentally end up at a hotel where there's a convention of child-hating witches.

I imagine a woman in a hotel with an AGP convention would feel similar.

quiggyMarch 9, 2025

And the witches wear wigs šŸ¤”

atomic_brunetteMarch 10, 2025

There are so many bad examples of gender bending stunt casting, but a reboot of The Witches with TIMs in the title roles would be too perfect.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

I never even thought of that.

I wonder how many were there. If it made a difference on the Strip

Of course it didā€¦just one TIM can wreak havoc, image a convention unleashed on ā€˜Vegas

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

There are actually things for kids to do. I donā€™t think Iā€™d bring my kids, but some people coming for convention/wedding/family gatherings donā€™t have a choice

HagwitchMarch 9, 2025

Just got back from Leeds Uni - an institution which is very much TWAW. Marks on the wall in the womenā€™s toilets indicated that a man/men had been wanking in there. I wonder what sort of person would do that šŸ™„ and why some TIMā€™s seem so completely unable to manage their behaviour within the boundaries quite reasonably expected in society šŸ¤®

LouhiMarch 9, 2025

I mean, they're literally being told that it's an act of bravery to showcase their deviancy. What sociopath wouldn't do it? šŸ˜‘

I can't believe we devolved into this as societies. I also don't think I'll ever forgive the useless idiots who made this happen.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

They actually WANT this to be noticed

goatsauceMarch 9, 2025

So, you can have a whole convention geared exclusively towards TIMs (it doesn't seem like TIFs were encouraged to attend), and no one says a thing about how exclusionary that is? But if you had a convention for lesbians, no caveats about how everyone is included and men are welcome and gender is great, you'd get your car set on fire or something. This is a fetish convention using the guise of a normal advocacy get together as a smokescreen for a bunch of disruptive crossdressers to get together in public.

LadyAltariaMarch 10, 2025

no one complains abt how exclusionary is bc no one is fighting to be with in their disgusting, filthy, rotting company

xy_equals_guyMarch 9, 2025

You know how LGBs wanted to be out in the open, so that everybody knows and cares about somebody who is gay?

The Ts seem to be taking the opposite tactic. They want to ensure that everybody has met some degenerate who is trans.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

LGB wanted to be seen as a normal part of society, and left in peace. These grifters are going to ruin everything they worked for

VestalVirginMarch 9, 2025

I think the Ts don't grasp the difference between those two things.

(Some gay men don't, either, if I look at photos of CSD. Dressing up in fetish gear isn't exactly good for public image.)

Perhaps they are going for "visibility" not quite grasping that it worked for homosexuals because most homosexuals (especially lesbians) are really very normal.

They don't seem to realize that knowing someone doesn't equal liking them ... especially if their true self is kinda disgusting.

pennygadgetMarch 10, 2025

Gays and lesbians succeeded because their rallying cry was, "We're normal people. Please just leave us alone to date/marry who we love"

The Queer/Trans rallying cry is, "LOOK AT MEEEE!!! I'M GONNA WALK NAKED DOWN MAIN STREET IN FETISH GEAR FOR THE PRIDE PARADE!!! AND THEN I'M GOING TO THE LIBRARY IN DRAG TO READ TO TODDLERS!!!! AND IF YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THAT, YOU'RE A NAZI!!!"

ActualWendyMarch 9, 2025

I've been in several women-only (or women-mostly) events where the staff love the group and want them to come back. The most recent example was Skala Eressos, on Lesbos.

MaryDyerMarch 9, 2025

Fuck if I had been a cleaning lady there Iā€™d have been snapping photos left and right, documenting like crazy!

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

I just feel for them the most here. They are actual women cleaning up after selfish,narcissistic men

So revolutionary ā€¦

SaladSparklzMarch 9, 2025

Oh yeaaaa, these things get filed under this never happens

pennygadgetMarch 10, 2025

You would think that they would just dissolve the ""community"" if this was such a big problem that the convention website had to post a message begging their people not to smear shit on the walls and leave soiled diapers everywhere

Also, I would not respect a hotel manager who is willing to give these fuckers a second chance after the first time they fucked up. Its disrespectful to the staff who have to deal with bad behavior and biohazards

BisphosphateMarch 9, 2025

Since when did they start to call sexual assault "public display of affection"...

babygrandpianoMarch 9, 2025

Wow, these people are disgusting, disrespectful, and depraved. The fact that the majority of cleaning staff in a hotel are women just adds to my outrage. It seems we are always the collateral damage in their quest to orgasm.

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

Woah!11

Seriously, make this a post. WTF

SaladSparklzMarch 10, 2025

I think I've posted this before or at least I've commented it. Please feel free to make your own post if you'd like ā¤ļø spread this info!

a_shrubBicycle Engine Gender šŸš²March 10, 2025

While it is the hotelā€™s responsibility to take care of the restrooms and clean the hotel rooms, this responsibility extends to ā€œnormal useā€ and the conditions present significantly exceeded that threshold.

(emphasis mine) šŸ¤¢

OnlyHumanMarch 9, 2025

I see potential for one of those bad convention videos

pennygadgetMarch 10, 2025

I hope it gets made. It would be amazing if some hotel employee posted footage

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 9, 2025

That would be awesome!!!

JuiceLadyMarch 9, 2025

Wow I wish the All Gas No Breaks guy was around to document the experience. I bet coverage wouldā€™ve been THE juiciest peaking material

Carrots90Nepo LadyMarch 10, 2025

Exactly. I wish I had a link or some additional info

I wonder how they treated the rest of the female staff

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