All About Love is from 2000 and seems focused on the general topic of love. I'm interested in it because I always wonder what "love" really means.

The Will to Change is from 2004 and seems focused more on men and how patriarchy deprives them from being able to love. I initially was interested in this book because of an opinion piece that compared this bell hooks' book to Ken in the Barbie movie. But I'm curious if it's more aimed at men than it is for women?

I'm most likely going to read both at some point, but I'm wondering which to read first. Has anyone read both and might have an opinion on the differences between the two books?