In praise of “vanilla” lesbian sex

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Chit ChatIn praise of “vanilla” lesbian sex

Posted October 28, 2022 by ladyagatha in Lesbians

I love vanilla sex. Because of liberal feminism’s BDSM brainwashing, I used to doubt myself. Am I boring in bed? Am I unenlightened? Heteronormative? Caught in the Madonna-Whore mentality? Or worse— could I be… basic?

No, I just love women. I don’t want to hurt women or cause them pain. What could be boring about women sharing their bodies with one another, with trusting one another in their joined states of vulnerability, giving each other pleasure? Every time I’m on top of my girlfriend, underneath her, or between her thighs, I’m anything but bored. It literally never gets to feel “boring” or “routine” for me. It doesn’t rule out creativity or curiosity; “vanilla” sex leaves room for those things to be explored organically, together, joyfully. I love feeling safe during sex, I love the build up, the moment before she cums, I love the after, the holding her when she’s warm, and naked and sleepy.

“Vanilla” sex rocks, and I love it. I love women! That’s all.

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October 20, 2020

(Edited October 20, 2020)

When you say brownie are you talking about the girls scouts ?

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October 20, 2020

Yeah, it was the entry-level rank for Girl Scouts, starting at 5 IIRC?

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Gabble

October 21, 2020

In the UK, it’s the 7-10 level of Girl Guides, and it’s the level that the highest proportion of British women have been involved in at some point.

Rainbows are 5-7. Guides are 10-14.

There’s a lot to like about Guides and the whole movement, but the Brownie story and the messaging around it in Brownies is female socialisation writ big. Cubs (Cub Scouts, the equivalent now for all children, then just for boys) “Do Your Best”. Brownies, in those days, “Lend a Hand”.

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EvenMoreMinty

October 21, 2020

You're remembering correctly.

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Posted October 28, 2022 by ladyagatha

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