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Serious DiscussionThoughts on considering race when dating?
Posted December 9, 2023 by purple0637 in Lesbians

I've seen some women say they only want to date poc or their own race and I'm wondering what everyone's thoughts are on this? I can see the benefits of having a shared culture/experience. Though with identity politics and oppression olympics or whatever, I wonder if some women of color think it's bad to date a white woman or if some white women try to seek out women of color so they're not seen as "racist". I also wonder how much of this is mostly a western problem due to certain ideologies and the fact that the population is mostly white.

(Writing this, I realize I'm not sure how to feel about the term "woman of color" or "nonwhite woman" and wonder what you all think about that too.)

5 comments

Carrots90June 24, 2023

I’m still so mad about the Vagina Monologues

urprettymuchnuthinJune 25, 2023

The writer of that play thinks transwomen are women so she can go pound sand.

Carrots90June 25, 2023

Ugh

I wonder if she really does?

Not that we can know

BehindtheCurtainJune 25, 2023

We finally got a chance to talk about ourselves and it's already gone

Carrots90June 25, 2023

Talk of Vaginas made people uncomfortable because they were so dirty & gross. They should be hidden, not be talked about

….and then suddenly

Talk of Vaginas make people uncomfortable because they are so exclusionary & oppressive. They should be hidden, not be talked about

Except in porn. Then vaginas are fine, always was, always will be. Just they have to be called something degrading. And lesbians must have one. Sorry bedicked women. Men don’t have to see dicks they don’t want to see