Gender ideology has made dating EVEN harder for lesbians.

QuestionGender ideology has made dating EVEN harder for lesbians.

Posted March 3, 2024 by dragonheart in Lesbians

I feel like dating is already hard enough for lesbians when trying to find a woman who isn't poly/looking for a third with her boyfriend/looking to experiment and of course, avoiding TIMs taking up space in our events and online spaces too. Now it seems even if you do find another lesbian/bisexual woman that you like, you have to hope she isn't a "they" and potentially going to mutilate her body/start pumping herself full or hormones on top of everything else... there's also the consideration that "they" types aren't going to want to date women who have different opinions on gender ideology either since anyone who commits thoughtcrime is an evil bigoted insert usual rhetoric etc.

I wonder how other lesbians feel and what your experiences with dating have been?

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Posted March 3, 2024 by dragonheart

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