Fighting Lesbian Loneliness: Ovarit Lesbian Matchmaking doc

Posted December 29, 2021 by hufflepuff-poet in Lesbians

Hey, I got inspired by @greenergardens post about making Ovarit a space where we can organize and meet each other irl, and fight lesbian loneliness together.

So I made a google sheet with matchmaking questions, the doc is available to be edited by anyone with the link so I'm only sharing the link via DMs from people with atleast a couple months/handful of posts in their history. Sorry to exclude newer members but I don't know how else to vet on Ovarit. There are a few identifying questions; Ovarit username (not collecting real names/social media handles besides Ovarit on this doc), Age, State/Country/Region (share as much or as little as you like, I included all 3 for myself), and preferred method of communication (do NOT share your social media handles on this doc! Only whether you'd like to communicate via email, social media, discord or what's app--phone isn't a method cus I don't think it's safe to share phone numbers on a public doc--if you want to share social media handles, do that on your Ovarit DMs pls, don't post your contact info in the doc or I will delete it!)

DM me if you'd like the link to the google sheets to share your info! Also if anyone has tips on how to make this more secure I'd love to hear about it :)

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Posted December 29, 2021 by hufflepuff-poet

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