(Lesbian experiences only please)
I have spent some time wondering what made the best sex I've ever had... you know, the best sex I've ever had.
After going through periods of having a very low libido to a very high libido, I'm in the latter phase now and wondering what I can do to keep myself here.
Some factors that I think made my best experiences very nice:
- making the environment quiet/safe/clean for some time before the experience, to relax
- being well-rested, with no time-sensitive plans for the rest of the evening
- feeling clean/confident (freshly showered/shaved if that's for you, nice-smelling lotion/deodorant on, outfit that makes you feel good or that she likes)
- not being able to see each other for a while prior (yay, longing!)
- letting myself just sit in feelings of wanting to be with her
- warming her up during work with texts telling her what I want to do
- soft/unintelligible music in the background
- take Excedrin before for caffeine + painkiller effects (vaginismus sucks)
- having edibles together so that all sensations are turned up 1000x and our orgasm threshold is lowered
- whatever dirty talk comes naturally
- grindingggg
- keep the AC blasting during summer (lol)
- get food after
I'm really interested to hear what has helped other women. Thanks so much!
I wish she would sue all these scrotes into poverty.