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Posted September 14, 2024 by HoneycreeperBird Lesbian in Lesbians

Or should I say, purportedly lesbian films šŸ™„

I swear I am very tired of continuously finding lesbian films whom the entire romantic plot revolves around the lesbian having an affair with a married woman. I donā€™t know whose fantasy this is supposed to beā€™s, but it certainly isnā€™t mine.

I for one just want some real lesbian media. No men standing in the way of the relationship.

EDIT: The movies in question Iā€™ve found recently are The World to Come and Elena Undone

25 comments

UnderstandersonOctober 1, 2024

I don't know how easy it still is to find it, but I really liked "Aimee & Jaguar"--1999 German art house film about lesbians in Berlin during WWII.

XiasanSeptember 20, 2024

There's one I would recommend: Ayaka is in Love with hiroko It's a really cute series :] give it a try!

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 20, 2024

As long as itā€™s not anime, I will look into it!

XiasanSeptember 20, 2024

a live show! https://www.gagaoolala.com/en/videos/4530/ayaka-is-in-love-with-hiroko-2024 ^ Here's a link Lmmk what you think ~

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 20, 2024

Oh wonderful! Iā€™ll check it out

quartzSeptember 16, 2024

if u are interested u can try thai gl series. they are all very good

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 16, 2024

Thai gl? Do they have subtitles?

quartzSeptember 16, 2024

yes they have english sub title. https://youtu.be/UvIsfte-G-4?si=XhjvclENIBbun2PL this is one of my fav , u can check it out. the actresses are so pretty

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 16, 2024

Thank you! Iā€™ll go ahead and check it out.

DestresseSeptember 15, 2024(Edited September 15, 2024)

I don't think I've seen a single lesbian movie that I've liked lol. But I'm not really a movie person to begin with, the only ones I enjoy are stupid comedies or documentaries.

It's like movies aren't long enough to develop a good relationship, so unless there's a time-skip or it's about exes who meet again coincidentally, I don't believe in the bond they create šŸ™ˆ

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 15, 2024

Haha, the quip about movies couldnā€™t be more true, thereā€™s a lot I just canā€™t get into because I can already tell how the plot is gonna go and then I lose interest. If itā€™s something new premise wise or interesting that I havenā€™t seen before, then Iā€™ll watch it.

I too like documentaries and silly comedies!

velvetpawsSeptember 15, 2024

If it's a good story, and if the leads have good chemistry, I'll probably enjoy it. Did you see Carol? There were several men standing in the way of that relationship, but it was beautiful and believable nonetheless.

But I think what's going on here most of the time is that someone wants to/is commissioned to make a lesbian film but they don't actually have any good ideas, so they insert cheating as a plot point to generate cheap drama.

CryingInYourInboxSeptember 15, 2024

Does Carol have a happy ending?

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 15, 2024

I did see Carol! And yes I did enjoy it, and youā€™re right that men were in the way there, but it has the excuse that it was set in the 50s. Sometimes it lends itself to a good movie, but if itā€™s the same premise over and over, it just gets old to me.

As you said, Velvet, movie directors run out of ideas, so they just fall back onto cheating. Thereā€™s probably loads of other creative stories to tell, heck, even my own dreams have more drama than half of the lesbian films out there.

Jack_the_LassSeptember 15, 2024

Recently watched Love Lies Bleeding, and it was a good, if weird, film.

The lesbian characters work really well in the story, but the story is not a vehicle for a lesbians like Ammonite or that whole angsty lesbian period film genre. But the story would not have worked nearly as well with a het couple.

I say its weird because it takes kind of a strange Cronenberg-esque body horror twist at the end.

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 15, 2024(Edited September 15, 2024)

Yeahā€¦.i donā€™t do horror or extreme violence very well, so Iā€™ll take your word for it! šŸ˜…

Was Ammonite any good? I havenā€™t watched Portrait of a Lady on Fire yet either. I guess I havenā€™t tried hard enough to find it on streaming platforms.

I find a lot of lesbian films on Prime and Tubi, but the Tubi ones usually are B movies with very poor writing. I honestly dislike how picky I am with my movies

EDIT: list of films Iā€™ve found, but have not watched yet, to show whatā€™s in this catalog:

-Girl Play (2004)- two women form feelings for each other after being cast as lovers in a local play

-The Affair (2019)- yet again a lesbian movie about two women with this time both of them married to men šŸ™„, a period piece set during the Nazi invasion of Czechoslovakia (foreign film)

-Walk with Me (2021)- about a divorced woman with a child falling in love with a woman

-Blush (2016)- an Israeli film about a teen girl escaping her volatile family after she meets a new girl at school

-Ambrosia (2012)- this movieā€™s premise falls back on the ā€œpredator lesbianā€ stereotype, so definitely not worth a watch

-Elena Undone (2010)- one of the two films I recently found. The wife of a preacher has an affair with the local lesbian

-But Iā€™m a Cheerleader (2000)- we all know the premise of this one by now, rather on the campy side

-Love Spells and All That (2019)- two women reunite after 20 years at the place where they fell in love as teens

-The World to Come (2021)- the other movie I recently found. A married woman has a dying marriage, and falls in love with the woman who lives nearby their farm

-Bottoms (2024)- I heard thereā€™s some politically correct TRA nonsense in this movie, so I steered clear of it. Essentially, two girls start a fight club at their school to date cheerleaders

Movies I have watched:

-Carol (classic at this point)

-Booksmart (liked this one)

-Cloudburst (plot writing was poor, didnā€™t like)

-All About E (I LOVED this one)

-Heartland (terrible)

-Signature Move (this one was just okay, but not bad)

-Almost Adults (so bad that I didnā€™t even finish the movie)

-Becks (terrible)

-Happy End (absolutely dreadful)

-Take me for a ride (also filled with angst, terrible writing)

faerieberrySeptember 14, 2024

Cloudburst was good, admittedly I watched it probably 10 years ago lol

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 14, 2024

I saw that movie, and I thought itā€™s writing left a lot to be desired

SeekingcriticalthinkSeptember 15, 2024

Ok 2 more came to me:

  • Butch Jamie and the sequels
  • Suicide Kale.

They both have an indy feel but worked out quite well for me. The Butch Jamie ones I found funny. I just googled and Michelle Ehlen has made another movie since called Maybe Someday and it's about a "NB"...šŸ˜­. Why did you do that Michelle, why??

I might have watched them on Tubi can't remember. I gave up on Tubi after a while cuz I found it generally eh stuff too.

I should watch Desert Hearts as I've heard a lot about it. I read the book and found it just ok so wasn't raring to watch the movie.

I feel like I'm missing recalling a good movie I've seen...

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 15, 2024

Iā€™ve heard about Desert Hearts too. I really should watch it! But the book is usually better than the movie, so if you didnā€™t like the bookā€¦.still should give it a chance though.

Tubi is rough. I canā€™t block out all the horror stuff it keeps shoving at me, and some of their lesbian selection is lowkey gratuitous soft core porn. Like thatā€™s not what I want to see, I want lesbian stories taken seriously.

Also it hurts more when a director sells herself out to the cult šŸ˜“. Like you made a movie that was about an actual lesbian and now you cast that out??

SeekingcriticalthinkSeptember 15, 2024

it did hurt a bit - Michelle played the butch in the Butch Jamie movies and was funny. V attractive to me. Then she played a NB in the latest. šŸ˜­. I wonder if (fear) it's tracking her identity narrative irl.. Even the older ones affected by this nonsense? šŸ˜•

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 16, 2024

Yeah itā€™s just unbearable to see older women fall into this nonsense. Like KD Lang went the she/they route tooā€¦perhaps itā€™s the fear of getting canceled or cast out, or perhaps itā€™s the fear of falling out of favor of the current ā€œtrendsā€. ā€œYou arenā€™t special anymore unless you are x, y, or z,ā€ says the trans cult

SeekingcriticalthinkSeptember 15, 2024

Oh you gotta watch Go Fish! That will be period for a lot of younguns now šŸ˜‚.

I like Bound. I know it's by TIMS but I still liked the movie. Jennifer Tilly in it is the only femme I have ever fancied!

I wish someone would make a Gentleman Jack film. Or some film with a lead of the same sort.

Honeycreeper [OP]Bird LesbianSeptember 15, 2024

I think I tried to watch Go Fish and I was likeā€¦.what is this? Haha, I might give it another try!

I quite liked Gentlemen Jack. If only they could make more shows like that in general. Or more movies with a character like that as youā€™ve said! Something without the gender bullshit

CryingInYourInboxSeptember 15, 2024

I like those I want married women to have an affair with me lmao