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As in,
From what it was, to how it is now. Was there ever a point in which is provided you; safety, reassurances, closure &, or comfort?
Anything of that sort?
Has anything negative come out of it?
Do you think there would be any benefits with lesbians re-hashing things with Gay men and Bisexuals?
Or at this rate, are we better materializing with ourselves first, and then possibly expanding outwards?
Let me know your experiences and thoughts,
Bans all the lesbians who aren't interested in dick, who talk openly about vaginal health, or even dare to mention that they aren't on birth control.
"Wait, why is it just transbians here? How could this happen!?"
"You mean we've just been jerking off to one another THIS WHOLE TIME!?!?!?"
“Maybe it’s my imposter-syndrome and internalized transphobia that is making me feel so grossed out”
Nah. Most straight dudes don’t like jerking off to other men they thought were women. Totally normal
They're surprised? Anytime I visit that sub for a laugh, pretty much every single post I see is by a "transbian" with 95%+ replies by other "transbians". I don't even have to click their pages to know, they usually put it in their flair. The ones who don't have it in their flair have an assortment of mtf comments and posts if I click on them. Even if I didn't click their pages or look at the flairs, I guess correctly almost 100% of the time because they don't post like women. Everything is incredibly sexualized and fetishized to them, and they love to post weird anime pictures with "uwu good girl" and "headpats" in them that almost no real woman would say or post. I do like how they pretend to have a conscience and say "am I intruding on this space?" Yes. But you don't care.
Yeah i just clicked on one porn looking post that just screamed maleness. I guess i got a "stealth" one cause it showed no trans subs at all but he basically only posted in anime porn subs, special emphasis on child porn, as well as.... A bunch of gaming and programming subs. Yeah Bradley, you aint stealth.
It's honestly ridiculous. and this subreddit is named "actuallesbians" instead of just "lesbians" because, of course, the "lesbians" subreddit name was already taken by, you guessed it, porn. Porn made for these men. Probably the same porn they watched that made them "~realize they were a lesbian~". It wasn't enough for lesbians' sexuality to be sexualized and pornified by men, in turn making it difficult for lesbians to find content for us online that ISN'T porn made for men. Now they LARP as us on top of it all, believing they belong amongst us and convincing many of the same...
Comment: “I went from a straight man to an actual lesbian in like two days”
No, no you didn’t bro.
I saw that! 🤡🤡🤡
Also, all the ones so shocked that MTF is top and not LGBT. You KNOW those are the men slowly realizing every “lesbian” they’re talking to is a man.
Even and especially the ones who have a lesbian flag and a flare that says ‘cis-lesbian’
Rofl. Any actual lesbian (you know, XX ONLY attracted to other XX) who stumbles unawares into that sub finds out quickly it's all men and leaves the sub. All us actual lesbians are meeting and communicating privately among ourselves.
Let the "trans" males inflict themselves only on each other. No lesbian will ever want any of those men.
Wherree??? The men drove al the lesbians away and I can't find them anymore.
There is a lesbian circle on here and there are quite a few in person terf meetings in the UK which lots women including lesbians attend.
There are no places online or irl for the sole purpose of socializing - ie: lesbian bars or bookstores - which was a lot easier.
Now you have to participate in activities where there are likely to be lesbians. Eg: softball (or other sports), hiking groups, political activism that supports women and opposes gender ideology. There will also be "trans" males and their ball palming tras (except in the political activism) but the lesbians connect and start meeting outside of those activities - without the men. There is a certain schädenfreude satisfaction because the "trans" males know they are being excluded from lesbians' social lives lol.
Thus all takes a lot more effort than the halcyon days when we could just walk into ready-made places to meet. But it is possible to meet other lesbians that way.
Surprise = 0. This board has secretly been r/mtf as long as I've been here
Lol, "secretly" tho? Pretty openly just gross men invading a women's space i think.
These are always my favorite posts. Pure, delicious, unadulterated schadenfreude.
Looooove the guy who went "I didn't expect this to be basically r/mtf, the vibe over there always felt........ heterosexual" WELL IDK MATE I'd say that's pretty fitting then!
They all enter those spaces thinking that they’ll be surrounded by women, and it crushes their souls to discover they haven’t been talking to women at all, and are surrounded by “lesbians” with penises.
This must crush that sense of validation they thought they were getting.
There’s a thread in r/honesttransgender that confirms the sausage fest data has some TW shook.
I made a meme to illustrate their feelings.
I hope others read that thread because it’s illustrative of the self-delusional blindspots TIMs have.
The OP is complaining about pre-op transbians posting too much about transness in r/actualLesbians. But that’s not even the core problem that is driving the OP’s angst; he’s just unwilling to be candid about the truth. The data shows that the majority if not most of the posters in that subreddit are TIMs. That’s what is embarrassing him. It doesn’t matter what the content of their posts are.
I went to r/actualLesbians and randomly clicked on a username to review their posting history. First and only one I clicked on proved to be a TIM. So like, none of them should be surprised.
Wonder why lesbians, adult human females sexually attracted to other adult human females, are not posting on these Reddit threads colonized by lesbian-identifying males? Whatever could it be?
It’s for the same reason that r/lesbians is all XX females
People who like women, only like women
At first we may wonder why the two subs are so radically different
Until we realize that both subs are a clear testimony of mens feelings being more important than womens
Let me try to upload transbian penis porn to r/lesbians, it will be taken down because’vaginas only’
Then let me try to post something vagina only to r/actual lesbians and I will be taken down
This exchange :
"[–]ThisismyaltprofileDon of the Lesbian Sex Mafia 18 points 8 days ago Wow, I knew this was a trans positive sub but I'm surprised that the trans subs have the highest multiplier. I expected two chromosomes and LGBT to be the highest. Is this just because those subs are smaller and thus have a higher multiplier, or is that because we have far more trans people I wonder? If the later, what's the highest overlap independent of another subreddits user base? Neat either way. permalinkembedsavereportgive awardreply [–]Xerlith 15 points 8 days ago My guess would be that people’s eggs crack, they get involved in trans subs, and realize they’re lesbian now rather than straight. This is all new and exciting, so they start posting in all those related subs at once. Might lead to a stronger correlation than cis lesbians posting here and those other subs? Or else LGBT Reddit is just flooded with trans women (entirely possible)"
HOW ARE YOU SURPRISED ??? A POODLE WOULD HAVE THIS FIGURED OUT !
No fucking lesbians hang around there anymore !!! Just bi women and TIMs. That's it. What a bunch of idiots.
I honestly think the first guy really thought actual XX women were hanging out on mtf subs rather than face the truth
Also, I don’t see why Bi women would want to be on there.
It’s like I’ve said before. I like sardines, and I like strawberry ice cream. I don’t have to try strawberry ice cream with chunks of sardines in it to know I don’t want strawberry ice cream with chunks of sardines in it
I think there's a bunch of bi women on there who either identify as lesbians and shame the actual lesbians on the sub for not wanting TIMs or just bi women who don't understand what the big issue is because they don't get harassed like actual lesbians do.
I don't know. I agree with you though, indeed. There was an essay that got shared on here last summer that a gay man wrote saying most people won't be interested in some sort of amalgam of both sexes. I completely agreed.
Strawberry ice cream with sardines is pretty gross though. 😂
"Maybe it's internalized transphobia speaking but this makes me a little uncomfortable" 😏😏😏
Because you are a straight guy
You like women, not men in dresses…
I guess maybe trans women have a higher chance of being gay/bi than cis women
Yeah, I guess both men and women are more likely to be heterosexual than homosexual. Shocker, I know.
Egg cracked? Wtf is that?
An "egg" is a trans person who doesn't yet know they are trans, so their egg cracking is when they realize it
"Maybe it's internalized transphobia speaking but this makes me a little uncomfortable, I'm constantly fighting the feeling that I'm some out-of-place invader who's just taking over women's spaces... I guess maybe trans women have a higher chance of being gay/bi than cis women, maybe I'm looking too far into it, maybe I should just stop typing..."
They are an out-of-place invader who's just taking over women's spaces.
Yeah, the sunrise of awareness and then the refusal to see the sun. This terrible feeling is what is behind the never-ending need for validation which has forced a few transwomen to demand gyno checkups when their genitals are male and many to argue that they have all the other symptoms of periods except for the bleeding. It's sad, because no amount of validation will ever work.
And yes, that transwomen are so many on those feminist subreddits does turn them into mixed sex ones where the topics will have different weights. Excluding those who don't have the female body in contexts where having that body matters is not transphobia but drawing healthy psychological boundaries.
Currently the boundary-drawing abilities of far too many young and older women are nonexistent. All doors are open and windows broken and anyone should be allowed to come into women's spaces. But once you do that, conversations will not be about female issues.
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Pretty sure that's just your totally normal human conscience, bro! And of course the other dudes there are insisting there's nothing wrong with the fact that they've taken over yet another lesbian space!
ETA: Just had a nosey at the original r/dataisbeautiful post, and this comment thread is just... w o w. How delusional do these men have to be to think their obsession with their girldicks and creepy fetishisation of wlw is even remotely on par with the way lesbians - or any women, for that matter - express their sexuality?
See this is why it's so dangerous to keep coddling men like this, they really feel entitled to just barge in wherever they want because women don't matter, and now they're just starting to wake up and say, "maybe I'm acting like a total asshole? Maybe the way I treat women matters?'
It only matters to them because they realize they've killed off the stock they were coming for.
This will never get old.
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Or repeatedly make sock accounts to post this multiple times a day. 😂😂
This is the funniest thing I've read all day.
10 days ago I asked someone if there were any Lesbians left in the sub. According to the stats probably only a small group left.
Just like how they only care about Porn and it's harmful effects when they have sexual disorders.
And the reply!
"I think you're fine, boo. You're not an invader that's for sure."
No, Boo, you are not an invader, don't worry. r/actualllesbians hasn't been a woman's space for a long time now.
Let's take a moment of silence to witness the rarity that is a TIM in a lesbian space who actually has a conscious.
LMBAO!
You were on the ones who said it's nothing but a sausage fest.
According to the Stats it's True.
His conscience is shrivelling up or he wouldn’t be there (or be a TIM at all).
It isn’t his conscience shriveling up at the realization that all the lesbians he’s been interacting with are the enpenised sort
I thought someone would pick up on that word choice. 😈
We see you, hmimperialtortie, and we know what you are up to!
Muahahaha!
It's not a conscience so much as a wilting erection.
😂😂😂