How do you feel about posts whose topics cover sex?

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QuestionHow do you feel about posts whose topics cover sex?

Posted October 11, 2024 by HoneycreeperBird Lesbian in Lesbians

14%I’d engage in these posts, and they should be posted
14%I’d engage in these posts, and they should be posted
18%I wouldn’t engage with these posts, but they should be posted
18%I wouldn’t engage with these posts, but they should be posted
2%I don’t like those posts and will downvote immediately
2%I don’t like those posts and will downvote immediately
64%Lesbian women should feel free to discuss sexual topics whether we like the post or not
64%Lesbian women should feel free to discuss sexual topics whether we like the post or not
2%Other (please specify if you’d like)
2%Other (please specify if you’d like)

44 votes

Previously, women in this circle, (including myself) have made posts pertaining to questions, discussions, and dialogue around the topic of sex. As we are lesbian women, we should be able to feel like we can discuss what makes us lesbians (our innate exclusive attraction to other biological human females) without feeling like we are being judged. This is the only place on the internet where we can actually talk about homosexual sex and those experiences pertaining to our homosexuality without the interference or brigading/invasion of men and straight individuals.

These topics include but are not limited to, the following:

Lesbian bed death myths and truths
Sexual intimacy in a relationship
Libido
Masturbation
Sex Toys
The Female Gaze when it comes to sexual fantasy/attraction
Lesbian Erotica
Advice on Sex Acts (Positions/cunnilingus)

I am of the belief that posts holding such topics should be able to be posted without negative judgement. We are not inanimate objects who react with zero sexual feeling. We are a compassionate sex that deserves a space to discuss burning questions we may have, seek advice, or in general have discussions on how to be better partners.

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Posted October 11, 2024 by HoneycreeperBird Lesbian

Edited October 11, 2024

Score: 4

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