I'm so sad and tired of this kind of responses to lesbians

Serious DiscussionI'm so sad and tired of this kind of responses to lesbians

Posted February 18, 2022 by [Deleted] in Lesbians

I'm so sorry in advance but I don't know where else to vent this. Everytime I talk even in a group that is about a celebrity it dosen't matter anywhere on the internet there is no comment about being a lesbians or talk about lesbians without people answering "but what about dick?" and not is in the name of tolerance, they just go wild just because you defend what a lesbian actually is and I don't see why that has to be discriminatory to anyone, they don't go to gay men to force them, it's women who have to give in.

I'm depressed and all this shit is weighting on me a lot, I feel like there is no space for me and eveytime I talk there is a heated discussion about how I need to go away for my thoughts.

To top it all I had a discussion yerterday about resignance and saying, well it is what it is, I'm gonna do whatever is more safe or ok for me and not move a finger and I was talking about the importance of fighting back an putting your ass on the line woth other people by your side. They were from the United States and well I found out by other girl, they were mocking me and other girl saying a similar thing on the side for being European and socualist and how lame we were for the things we were saying and I got kicked out from the discord server they were in.

I don't have that many people around me right now I recently moved to a new city, I'm, not a social media person I only use some discord servers, some reddit and little of tumblr, I'm so tired of this.

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a_shrubNon Trinary (!3/¬3)

October 8, 2024

(Edited October 8, 2024)

Well, fine then, if you're gonna be all accepting -- I'm a transbiotransbiowoman, so I'm even more oppressed than the newly validated stunning and brave bio transwomen, because no one doesn't think I'm not being not ridiculous!! 😭😭💀

*eta: if you don't pick a bear over me or a biotranswoman in the forest, you're a --phobe!

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TrappedInACar

October 8, 2024

This was in response to a very confusing OOP. She’s a straight woman in a relationship with a TIM who prefers he/him pronouns. She wishes she was a “transbian” because she wants to look like them and likes that they have introduced her to pet play and kinks. I can’t decide if it’s actually a man or the world’s biggest handmaiden who made the OOP.

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WatcherattheGates

October 8, 2024

Better tell MaryDyer!!

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[Deleted]

October 8, 2024

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MaryDyer

October 8, 2024

Finally we biotranswomen are getting the recognition we deserve! Anything other than recognition, celebration, and catering to our demands Is. Literally. Genocide.

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RusticTroglodyteOliver Twist Muppet

October 8, 2024

I'm so relieved that you're not being genocided anymore tbh

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DietCokeAddict

October 8, 2024

TIMs would love it if lots of actual women started claiming to be transwomen, then there’d finally be transwomen who pass as women (because they are).

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Posted February 18, 2022 by [Deleted]

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