Title. I want to be friends with other lesbians who are childfree.
The local lesbians I know are all captured by the LGBTQ+ community. The few neutral ones have fictional phallus fetish. They read heterosexual hentai and are as gross about it as men.
The childfree groups are not lesbian. They are all heterosexual women with a few men here or there.
Finding like-minded people is hard. If you feel the same way, let's be friends. We can create a space for ourselves.
I'm in. Lesbian and child free by choice. I once ended a relationship because she wanted kids. Well, it wasn't the only reason, but it was a big indicator of how far we'd grown apart.
It is hard to find community of any kind.
Right? I never get why lesbians of all people would want to have kids. Being impregnated by men and giving birth to children is the most heterosexual thing in the world. I do not see how lesbians (?) like that deal with the cognitive dissonance. Do they not connect these two things together?
I call my cat my son, but I have no desire to have human children. I'm in lol
We've got 20 people now. Large enough to create a group, small enough to get to know each other. The next step is to create a group on a platform somewhere so we can gather together. I think Discord unless you have better ideas? Let's decide on a platform and I'll create a new post with the link once I have created the group.
I’m interested :)
Great. Now it's time to figure out the logistics. Shall we open a Discord server first and see how it goes? Any platform recommendations?
wow that is a wack crowd you've got there! Reading het hentai?!?! Anyway, I'm childfree myself. I love children and am open to possibly caring for an older one in the future if one comes my way. But attempting to beget one by me or my person is a no.
Apparently, it is a common thing in the lesbian community. Especially in recent years. They read het porn and self-insert themselves as the man. This is most likely due to the invasion of lesbian fiction by fetishistic men and bisexuals. There is a woman with a child who writes lesbian fiction that is very popular with my local lesbian fiction group. Every single story of her contains one or both female leads having children with men. Her most popular story had the 2nd female lead drugging the 1st so the former's son can rape the latter to produce an heir. By the end she still forgives them and they live happily ever after.
That and the whole ABO verse thing where any "woman" can surprise you with a dick. I don't know whether it's straight women or transgender men who came up with this genre but it is the most disgusting thing they ever infected the lesbian community with. Now half the "lesbian fiction" on any platform have surprise dicks in them.
It is so disgusting I have resorted to writing my own fiction to consume in my spare time.
do you think those people are actually lesbians? It just doesn't ring true as something that would take off for lesbians. Is this the "queer" crowd?
I had to look up ABO verse. Just read the lines that came up on search. They have really internalised the power over paradigm.
I'm interested. If it's Discord, there should be some sort of verification process to make sure only women are allowed in. And no publically posting a link to the Discord on Ovarit.
aren't most lesbians childfree anyways?